This post is directed to JSmooth but anyone who has any opinion or feedback can feel free to comment on this.
I recently made a profile on Plenty of Fish. I have sent a few girls messages with moderate success in terms of responses. I have gotten a few to send me messages without sending them anything. The problem is that the site is saturated with girls that I wouldn't hook up with hammered (which is honestly pretty fucking terrible) and it has been only those that have been messaging me.
I have messaged the few hotties i have found and have gotten some good responses from the "OK" ones, but to be honest i really would have trouble going out with them as they are questionably hot (need more comprehensive photos). Maybe my standards are too high and I should just go out with them for practice. The ones who are clearly attractive have been hard to hook for me. Im sure because they get hundreds of messages per day (i made a fake profile to verify this and its pretty pathetic what i saw).
Im wondering if you could critique my profile and based on my personality, give me any ways to clean this up to look better for girls I message. Also, I saw your post about being very direct messaging online. I have tried this a few times but have gotten better responses (almost 100% success rate) when i say something indirect/friendly/playful. Do you have any recommendations as a basic strategy to work with on here?
Any other dating sites (preferably free) you would recomend checking out?
Anyway, here is my profile on here. Again, anything you think I should take out or emphasize more would be greatly appreciated as feedback.
I tend to take the road less in life. Im always up for doing something that i havent done before. I want to experience all of the great things that life has to offer and learn from the dirt as well. I am extremely ambitious and shoot for the stars with everything I do. I see this as an asset but it also causes me to a bit unrealistic at times. When i do things i go in head first and either find major success or find myself eating dirt.
Hobbies: I love to go out with my friends and see how ridiculous of a night we can have, im a certified skydiver, love to snowboard and wakeboard, play texas hold em poker, pick up a guitar from time to time. Im into anything that involves complex strategy. I think thats why I love to work on and expand my business so much - there are just so many variables to consider - to me it is really the largest, most complex strategy game this world has to offer. Plus if you get good at it you get filthy rich!
Goals: Honestly, and this may sound like im crazy and nieve, but I want to be the Richard Brandson of America. I want to build up an empire of businesses in various industries the way i believe they should be run. Outside of business Id really like to learn to fly planes, get certified to skydive in a wing suit, have houses/condos all across the world (colorado, vegas, LA, Miami, Nashville, New York, then wherever else I find myself extraordinarily attracted to), and ultimately surround myself with as many interesting incredible people as I can.
What kind of girl am I into? - I like pretty girls with bubbly personalities. If you fall into that category - congratulations! You are half way there with me. If your little, thin, and have blonde hair you can bump that up another 15%. Confidence is a major plus. I dont mind playing therapist sometimes but If it is a recurring theme in our relationship dont expect me to stay around long. If you dont fall into these categories, dont worry, you havent lost with me at all. These are just tried and true types of girls that I am attracted to and I like to have relationships with. Who knows, maybe I just havent met the right kinds of the other ones. If you think I'll like you, email me, I dont bite... unless you like that
I like good food, movies, massages, stargazing, parties, beer... once I figure out who you are and what you like then I will have an idea of a nice date to take you on."
Thanks in advance!