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PostPosted: Tue Jul 19, 2016 2:16 pm 
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Here are my observations having Tinder for 8 months:

First of all I think it's a piece of sh*t and barely use it. Why is it that men are so worried about having a DSLR quality photo, six pack abs, and these amazing photos?

Look at the women's profiles and you will see that their pictures are crappy, selfie, not even close to professional. Yet I see these little PUA kids running around getting Photoshopped pro photos of themselves and still not getting matches.

Stop giving these AW's attention! Do you guys realize IG, SC, and Tinder are just ways for them to get loads of attention without the intention of meeting anyone? They are narcissist to the extreme.

I would also like to remind you guys that these are not my own sentiments. I have spoken to like 12 different guys who generally do well with women in person and they all agree Tinder crap. The mass media is brain washing everyone into thinking this is what people do these days to meet, and it's a lie. It's not, people meet through mutual friends, social circles, parties, just like they always did.

Do I think it's a great concept? Well if it actually worked I wouldn't have to leave my house and could order in some pussy, who the hell wouldn't want that? But that is called a hooker my friends. No work, and get sex instantly for a couple of hundred bucks.

My experience with Tinder: I am a decent looking man, 6'2 and muscular because I bust my ass and work out. I am fortunate to be photogenic. 8 months on Tinder in New York City which is a massive city with endless opportunities:
I have met 6 women live and in person. I have had sex with 1 who was hot/22, but mentally ill.

The other women I met in person were also very bizarre (all 19-24) Keep in mind guys, this is 8 months of swiping and I do not pay for this sh*t. I paid just 1 month to test it out and results were pretty much the same however the girl I banged was "Super Liked".

My friends: I know 2 guys who get laid 2-4 times a month with hot girls which in my opinion is pretty good. They both tried Tinder and could barely meet any women on it as well.

The other people I know all financially successful men, or physically superior to the average in some way, suck with Tinder. So doesn't this prove it is a load of horse sh*t? I mean seriously guys.

Here is what works: Network with guys who are successful in some way. It's not always money but just being Alpha. Look for mentors. Hang out with successful people, be positive. Avoid bizarre people who are stuck in their own ways. Talk to women every where you see them and have a pair of BRASS BALLS. Failure leads to success. Go to private parties, join clubs and organizations, practice being outgoing, stop playing video games and Pokemon Go (if you want to play Pokemon Go you might as well locate women and hit on them instead of walking around like a Lemming chasing digital images of a fat yellow rabbit)

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PostPosted: Tue Jul 19, 2016 5:58 pm 
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Here are my observations having Tinder for 8 months:

First of all I think it's a piece of sh*t and barely use it. Why is it that men are so worried about having a DSLR quality photo, six pack abs, and these amazing photos?

Look at the women's profiles and you will see that their pictures are crappy, selfie, not even close to professional. Yet I see these little PUA kids running around getting Photoshopped pro photos of themselves and still not getting matches.

Stop giving these AW's attention! Do you guys realize IG, SC, and Tinder are just ways for them to get loads of attention without the intention of meeting anyone? They are narcissist to the extreme.

I would also like to remind you guys that these are not my own sentiments. I have spoken to like 12 different guys who generally do well with women in person and they all agree Tinder crap. The mass media is brain washing everyone into thinking this is what people do these days to meet, and it's a lie. It's not, people meet through mutual friends, social circles, parties, just like they always did.

Do I think it's a great concept? Well if it actually worked I wouldn't have to leave my house and could order in some pussy, who the hell wouldn't want that? But that is called a hooker my friends. No work, and get sex instantly for a couple of hundred bucks.

My experience with Tinder: I am a decent looking man, 6'2 and muscular because I bust my ass and work out. I am fortunate to be photogenic. 8 months on Tinder in New York City which is a massive city with endless opportunities:
I have met 6 women live and in person. I have had sex with 1 who was hot/22, but mentally ill.

The other women I met in person were also very bizarre (all 19-24) Keep in mind guys, this is 8 months of swiping and I do not pay for this sh*t. I paid just 1 month to test it out and results were pretty much the same however the girl I banged was "Super Liked".

My friends: I know 2 guys who get laid 2-4 times a month with hot girls which in my opinion is pretty good. They both tried Tinder and could barely meet any women on it as well.

The other people I know all financially successful men, or physically superior to the average in some way, suck with Tinder. So doesn't this prove it is a load of horse sh*t? I mean seriously guys.

Here is what works: Network with guys who are successful in some way. It's not always money but just being Alpha. Look for mentors. Hang out with successful people, be positive. Avoid bizarre people who are stuck in their own ways. Talk to women every where you see them and have a pair of BRASS BALLS. Failure leads to success. Go to private parties, join clubs and organizations, practice being outgoing, stop playing video games and Pokemon Go (if you want to play Pokemon Go you might as well locate women and hit on them instead of walking around like a Lemming chasing digital images of a fat yellow rabbit)

Good Luck.


You're mostly right. Tinder is a waste of time, and a distraction from doing the things that will get you closer to actually meeting a woman of quality. I've been on there since it launched because I get bored and like to screw around with it sometimes, but I have never met a woman of quality through that app and I suspect that 100% of HB10s using it are strictly seeking attention.

With that said, you're dead wrong about Pokemon GO. It's helping people develop social skills and lose their approach anxiety, and even if that's the ONLY thing it ever accomplishes for anyone, its value is beyond measure. Do some research on the already-staggering mental health benefits being reported in relation to this game and you will quickly see that your comments were entirely without merit.

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PostPosted: Tue Jul 19, 2016 6:22 pm 
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Sounds like you just dont know how to do it.

Tinde ris great because its something you can do when you have nothing else to do.

Taking a shit? Tinder.
Long car ride? Tinder.
Waiting at the docs office? Tinder.

Have good pics, swipe like a mad man, and message you matches something funny without being cliche. Sure, you wont be pulling tons of women off there anymore but you can get lays with very little effort. Ive gotten several lays from it this year with very little effort. Keep trying.

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PostPosted: Wed Jul 20, 2016 1:56 am 
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And get the fuck over yourself. Just because you don't like something or sick at something doesn't mean it's bad. You sound like an old man complaining about kids these days with their hip hop.

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PostPosted: Wed Jul 20, 2016 3:41 pm 
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I am advocating getting out and meeting women in person, which is far more effective than playing video games and swiping for hours. Besides your comment "Get over yourself" what sort of results have you produced on this crap app? How is life treating you in PA lol? I live in the biggest city in the US pretty much, and women pass by you every minute. So from a perspective of living in a large major city not some redneck little village in PA, it works to have a pair of BALLS and hit on women in person. I suggest hitting on women in person anywhere, but of course most men don't have it in them to do that, guys who defend these mass mind control video games and look at cuckold porn all night. I've been around kid, I know what i am talking about.


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PostPosted: Wed Jul 20, 2016 4:23 pm 
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NYC718 wrote:
I am advocating getting out and meeting women in person, which is far more effective than playing video games and swiping for hours. Besides your comment "Get over yourself" what sort of results have you produced on this crap app? How is life treating you in PA lol? I live in the biggest city in the US pretty much, and women pass by you every minute. So from a perspective of living in a large major city not some redneck little village in PA, it works to have a pair of BALLS and hit on women in person. I suggest hitting on women in person anywhere, but of course most men don't have it in them to do that, guys who defend these mass mind control video games and look at cuckold porn all night. I've been around kid, I know what i am talking about.
Speaking as a guy that has been around as well and loves approaching women IRL, I can say that there is nothing wrong with using tinder as well and I have met many women through that app. As a matter of fact, some of my favorite women I've met through online.

Truth is, I would advocate learning to approach women while out and about more than online, but if you're happy meeting women through apps and internet as your only source and it works for you...who the fuck am I or anyone else to judge? Live your life the way that makes you happy and if others don't agree, they can get over themselves.

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Some of your points are somewhat correct but still why rant about this?

Sounds like your frustrated with the quality of girls you can attract which of course many of us are. I wish I could bang every hot girl I see but it's just not possible. Just today there was a gorgeous girl that stared me down but she had a gigantic ring on her. Spending time like this dwelling on what pisses you off is not healthily no matter what it is.

Courting girls online is not unlike real life. Approaching a girl in real life and trying to build a connection has it's own good and bad, but so does anything online/application wise. Good looking girls online and in real life get BOMBARDED with guys. It's going to be hard no matter what you do, and you can't control who likes you anyway.

It's difficult I know, but there is no sense in complaining about things that are out of your control or fairness, which it seems is the premise of this whole post. What can you do now in this moment and forward about what is frustrating you? At least you realize that you need to spend your time in a productive way for you, but you still came here to type about this.

I spend my time going out meeting new poeple, improving myself, and having fun first, the girls are secondary. And BTW some of the hottest girls I know IRL play pokemon GO casually, so it can be used as a conversation piece.


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Yeah, stay clear of Tinder. More girls for me

P.S. Like my thread suggests, just don't depend on it.

I love cold approach but the other day, i got a match on Tinder from a Brazilian chick that I would probably have cold approached if I was to see her in the street.

But the ting is....I wasn't even in the street. I was at work, on my laptop and all I had to do was touch my screen a few times and then I was fucking her brains out a few hours later...

Technology is making us anti-social?

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PostPosted: Thu Jul 28, 2016 3:24 am 
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I certainly don't want to detract from the OP's feelings. Because I think the frustration is valid, and many guys experience it.

However, as has been pointed out a lot of it comes down to how you use it.

CASE IN POINT:
- I run a dating coaching company in Australia, I have 5 coaches who work for me.
- Each and every single one of them has gone through a phase where they suddenly stopped going out to bars to pick up girls (even though they are very proficient at it) and spent 3 months just hooking up with Tinder girls.
- They all discovered they could sleep with a new girl every day using their pickup skills paired with a top Tinder profile.
- They all stopped eventually and went back to meeting women in real life because after geting over the initial laziness, they realised that it was just more FUN to pick up women IRL. And also the quality was a bit better in real life.


So, I definitely know first hand that Tinder can yield massive results, and it's a bit of a laziness trap I've seen my coaches and many of my students fall into because once you get into the rhythm, it's just so easy to meet women there.

BUT I definitely think meeting women IRL is a better strategy.

Regarding the OP's sentiment about why bothering with high quality images and stuff....

SUPPLY AND DEMAND:
Men outnumber women on tinder about 4:1, and each man spends 3x longer online. Each man swipes yes to 15x more profiles than women do.

In short, Tinder's dynamic ensure's the only way to get results is to work hard to stand out amongst the herd. Fortunately, most of your competition there have no idea what they're doing so it's not a hard task to accomplish.

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Yeah I've been on the fence about Tinder, trying to figure out if I just suck/my profile sucks, or chicks are just on there for fun.

Some of them definitely are just there for attention. But I have have some meetups/sex thanks to it.

At the end of the day I've found the time investment required is pretty huge. Payoff generally not worth it. Takes a lot of chat to get chicks numbers, then they don't all end up with even a date, let alone sex.

I might just need to improve my Tinder skills. Currently taking a break. That time could be better spent on many other things, like improving real life game.


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PostPosted: Tue Aug 30, 2016 10:58 am 
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I tinder when im bored. Ive had a lot of good conversations on there and it helps me to better understand female logic


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PostPosted: Wed Aug 31, 2016 8:23 pm 
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I think it's a waste of time. That's time better spent talking to girls in person and being much more likely to get them that way.


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PostPosted: Wed Aug 31, 2016 9:08 pm 
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I've had zero success from tinder in a year, and I swipe until I run out every day!

However, assuming that what people write online is true of pickup forums, lots of guys are killing it with tinder, and getting laid with new girls most nights of the week.

I think in general, if you are very handsome, then it's probably a God send!


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Lol I kind of enjoyed your rant and I mostly agree. I've gotten some decent lays off Tinder, but you're right that it's really not the best use of time. It's a lot of work for not much reward, and it's just making the attention whores' heads even bigger. You're much better in real life, because there you don't have to compete with the masses of guys who don't have the balls to actually talk to a real live woman.

That said, there are some decent girls on Tinder and occasionally a super easy lay with a girl who just wants to hook up. And there are ways to get marginally better results if you apply yourself. But if you're getting girls in real life then probably no need to waste the time.

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PostPosted: Sat Dec 24, 2016 4:39 pm 
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Tinder works GREAT, as long as you know how to use it.

If it's such a crappy app, how does it come that I have so much succes with it?

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