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stringfellow on sticks
PostPosted: Wed Aug 24, 2016 11:05 am 
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Hi guys,

What do you think of this as a FIRST message for new Tinder matches?

"Hi! I don't believe in wasting time, so I'll keep this brief & direct.
I find you extremely attractive, and I'd like to find out more about you.
I need to find out how much fun you are, to know whether you qualify for a date with me!
Let's see if you pass my test! Sell yourself to me!" ;)

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Dragula
PostPosted: Wed Aug 24, 2016 12:10 pm 
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Horrible.

Framed that she is the prize, sounds desperate and last bit it so arrogant and looks like a copy and paste. This will ruin a lot of your matches.

Once you are matched on Tinder, you can be normal and just message her:

'(Name), you seem very interesting, I am Dragula'

I know it seems lame, but it works. You are already matched so a lot of the compliance has been handled already, it is a bad opener for POF and Okcupid though, so don't use it on those .

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**Waving Bear GIF optional**

Typo's bypass the copy and paste suspicion

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PostPosted: Wed Aug 24, 2016 12:12 pm 
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Ok, cool. Thanks for the feedback!
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I just edited

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Thanks Dragula.

Do you reckon the "Hi, I'm (name). You seem interesting." would work for POF too? Or is it too basic?
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You are already matched so a lot of the compliance has been handled already, it is a bad opener for POF and Okcupid though, so don't use it on those.
With POF and Okcupid, try to be more witty, for example:

You - '(her name) I am confused with your profile'
Her - 'Why?'
you - 'Because I have been on POF for 5 mins now and you STILL haven't sent me a cheesy chat up line, how rude! ;)'

The reason why this works is that her inbox is flooded with every guy on POF messaging her... This differentiates you from the sheep....It also confuses and encourages her to response. Otherwise, she will never find out why you are confused with her profile.

With Tinder, she is more selective with who she matches, so you have skipped a lot of the bull shit so need to encourage responses and you can be normal.

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PostPosted: Wed Aug 24, 2016 1:03 pm 
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Haha! I'll try this!

Thanks!
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My first message is "hm...I noticed that on the tinder are also nice girls" she always write "thanks" or something like this... i respond with "i dont mean you" , or something similar, i dont know if it is correct, because my english is bad sometimes....

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My first message is "hm...I noticed that on the tinder are also nice girls" she always write "thanks" or something like this... i respond with "i dont mean you" , or something similar, i dont know if it is correct, because my english is bad sometimes....

Christ almighty

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My first message is "hm...I noticed that on the tinder are also nice girls" she always write "thanks" or something like this... i respond with "i dont mean you" , or something similar, i dont know if it is correct, because my english is bad sometimes....

Christ almighty
i was on lot of dates only through this opener :)

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My first message is "hm...I noticed that on the tinder are also nice girls" she always write "thanks" or something like this... i respond with "i dont mean you" , or something similar, i dont know if it is correct, because my english is bad sometimes....

Christ almighty
i was on lot of dates only through this opener :)
I am pretty sure your pics are compensating for the shitty openers

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I am pretty sure your pics are compensating for the shitty openers[/quote]

i am very attractive man ... you are right, its easy to open when you look good :D

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Man I am good at this

just imagine how better you will be if you didn't message them crappy openers, you'd be unstoppable!

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Man I am good at this

just imagine how better you will be if you didn't message them crappy openers, you'd be unstoppable!
thanks, i will try your openers and i will give you echo

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The main thing is come up with some different,original, and creative. Absolutely do not do any of the following: Hey, What up?, How's it Going? If you going to say she's cute do it in a witty or interesting way
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