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 Post subject: Bachelor Approach
PostPosted: Sat Jan 21, 2017 11:20 am 
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I like to consider my online game very on point. Sharing a secret with you guys I have discovered.

We all know many girls watch the bachelor/bachelorette. I just started watching previously with an ex and now.....for fantasy....because you know....fantasy football ended....and I have to keep that fantasy game strong.

Long story short bring up the bachelor in your online conversations and ask them if they watch. Tell them your in it for fantasy reasons (to help you maintain that manliness image).

You now have a lengthy conversation about the show which she's not doing with any other guys guaranteed. MAKE SURE YOU KNOW THE CHARACTERS, actually watch the show so you can have a meaningful conversation that you can spin out into many different conversations. It also gives you something to follow up on weekly should things go cold or if you find some news article (DONT GIVE SPOILERS).

When you have the first date with a girl you know watches the bachelor, keep a single rose in your car. (Getting a rose on the show means the girl moves onto the next round). Tell her "I had a really fun time with you and wanted to know if "you will accept this rose" and go on a second date with me?


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 Post subject: Re: Bachelor Approach
PostPosted: Sat Jan 21, 2017 11:24 am 
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I've been told by girls a guy watching the bachelor/bachelorette is the equivalent of a girl watching sports.


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 Post subject: Re: Bachelor Approach
PostPosted: Sat Jan 21, 2017 8:36 pm 
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It's one thing if you like shows like the bachelor and you watch it. It's another if you are only doing it to get women to like you. I have had enough women throughout my life that I know that no television show is going to put me over the top when it comes to getting women.

The major problem I have with this that you are trying to seduce a woman by showing her that you can fit into her world. That's not what a man should be doing when it comes to seduction. A man should be masculine enough to make a woman want to fit into his world. That's why women like to put online that they like football and most other male dominant sports. She's trying to show that she can fit into a man's life.

This is the problem with guys that prefer online game as opposed to meeting women IRL. They present themselves in a less masculine way to appeal to what women like and depend too much on being comforting because women online want a gentleman who isn't interested in "hooking up" and say that they want to be friends first. Then when they meet those same women in person they have to present themselves in a mentally androgynous fashion in order to stay consistent to what was advertised to her and a date or two into it, she's not feeling him.


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 Post subject: Re: Bachelor Approach
PostPosted: Sat Jan 21, 2017 9:45 pm 
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To each their own. You way overthink this masculine feminine thing. You must be older.

I watched two seasons with a previous gf. Now this current season they have a fantasy league and I'm in a league with 2 guys and 3 girls I know.

Approach works for me. Sorry it doesn't work for you bud. And yes said girl will still have to watch sports for me. I haven't lost my male genitals because I watch the bachelor.


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 Post subject: Re: Bachelor Approach
PostPosted: Sat Jan 21, 2017 9:52 pm 
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To each their own. You way overthink this masculine feminine thing. You must be older.

I watched two seasons with a previous gf. Now this current season they have a fantasy league and I'm in a league with 2 guys and 3 girls I know.

Approach works for me. Sorry it doesn't work for you bud. And yes said girl will still have to watch sports for me. I haven't lost my male genitals because I watch the bachelor.
You haven't lost them in a literal way.

I'm not sure how you come to the point of saying it works for you. You say in a different post that you are in it to date and not fuck around and you said you met your last girlfriend on tinder. How many girls actually tell you that they are attracted to you because of this? More importantly, are you saying that you could not get girls without doing this? For a guy that's not fucking around, how can you be single and haven't had a girlfriend since you started using this technique and proclaim that it works?


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 Post subject: Re: Bachelor Approach
PostPosted: Sat Jan 21, 2017 10:17 pm 
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Been back on the tinder grind since just after Christmas. Thought I'd post something that's working for me. How would you know if it works and be able to judge it if you never done it yourself?!

Only doing this once. Every convo I've had along lines of the bachelor with a girl that watches has been positive. 3/3. This wasn't an opener this was after a dozen messages.

Me: Do you watch the Bachelor?
Her: Is that a trick question about the bachelor? Like if I say yes are you going to stop talking to me? Haha
Me: It'll have a lot to do with future conversation. Yes.
Her: Well, I'm quite an honest lady so, yes. Haha
Me: Phew. So your quite a normal lady. I watch too....because you know....with fantasy football ending.....I have to keep my fantasy game strong somehow.
Her: Normal is quite relative haha so how do you feel about Nick?! Who do you like??
Me: I think Nick is still a huge player and not ready to commit for marriage. And he's still thinking with the wrong head with Corrine. But it looks like the other girls are going to bring her down.
Me: I like Vanessa and Danielle (the one originally from Wisconsin) because they both seem the most real. Some of these girls are literally crazy and just looking for a ring regardless of chemistry. I feel those two are there to actually date and see if there is a future with nick or not.
Her: I agree 100% I like Nick better than I did originally but you're right, he's not ready for marriage. I can't stand Corrine, and why are all the girls in like their early and mid 20s while Nick is like 36??
Her: Vanessa is my favorite!! I like Danielle though too
Her: I feel like I've just learned so much about you lol
Me/her: back and forth about show/other stuff
Her: So if we meet and things go well, bachelor nights could be a possibility? Lol


I didn't realize it was wrong to have more in common with a girl then sports and drinking beer the way you make it sound.


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 Post subject: Re: Bachelor Approach
PostPosted: Sat Jan 21, 2017 10:21 pm 
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I have more going for me then this show. But it definitely leads to a good lengthy conversation and sub conversations.

Take it or leave it bud. I won't post anymore of my two cents as y'all are so critical.


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 Post subject: Re: Bachelor Approach
PostPosted: Sat Jan 21, 2017 10:28 pm 
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Diggy wrote:
Been back on the tinder grind since just after Christmas. Thought I'd post something that's working for me. How would you know if it works and be able to judge it if you never done it yourself?!

Only doing this once. Every convo I've had along lines of the bachelor with a girl that watches has been positive. 3/3. This wasn't an opener this was after a dozen messages.

Me: Do you watch the Bachelor?
Her: Is that a trick question about the bachelor? Like if I say yes are you going to stop talking to me? Haha
Me: It'll have a lot to do with future conversation. Yes.
Her: Well, I'm quite an honest lady so, yes. Haha
Me: Phew. So your quite a normal lady. I watch too....because you know....with fantasy football ending.....I have to keep my fantasy game strong somehow.
Her: Normal is quite relative haha so how do you feel about Nick?! Who do you like??
Me: I think Nick is still a huge player and not ready to commit for marriage. And he's still thinking with the wrong head with Corrine. But it looks like the other girls are going to bring her down.
Me: I like Vanessa and Danielle (the one originally from Wisconsin) because they both seem the most real. Some of these girls are literally crazy and just looking for a ring regardless of chemistry. I feel those two are there to actually date and see if there is a future with nick or not.
Her: I agree 100% I like Nick better than I did originally but you're right, he's not ready for marriage. I can't stand Corrine, and why are all the girls in like their early and mid 20s while Nick is like 36??
Her: Vanessa is my favorite!! I like Danielle though too
Her: I feel like I've just learned so much about you lol
Me/her: back and forth about show/other stuff
Her: So if we meet and things go well, bachelor nights could be a possibility? Lol


I didn't realize it was wrong to have more in common with a girl then sports and drinking beer the way you make it sound.
Post the screenshot and make it official.


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 Post subject: Re: Bachelor Approach
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 Post subject: Re: Bachelor Approach
PostPosted: Sat Jan 21, 2017 11:05 pm 
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Good job. Cute girl.

Now back to my main point. You are having a conversation between a girl and it's about television and texting the same things that one of her girlfriend's would text her. It's a conversation that has nothing to build attraction. Your 3/3 conversations have led to how many dates? How many of those dates led to second dates?


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 Post subject: Re: Bachelor Approach
PostPosted: Sun Jan 22, 2017 3:38 pm 
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Talking about the bachelor is not the only thing I use to build attraction. It's one that I think guys do not use though and is effective.

1. 6 out of 10...maybe higher can't tell from pictures. Not into as much got number mid week, asked her what she was up to day of yesterday. Initial connections over our pets and parks in area to hike. She wasn't available when I was. *She* asked for raincheck.

2. 7.5 out of 10 One above. I tried planning a date as you can see before bringing up bachelor, but she is 2 hours away with family this weekend. Very into her with commonalities, super excited to meet her. Already feel a lot of attractions has been built. Will give her rose after first date if all goes well. Do not have number, responds whenever I message on tinder and doesn't wait to respond. Legit conversations as if texting her. Could ask for number, indifferent about getting it, will get on 1st date for sure as long as she's as cute in pictures as she is and didn't use the angles that make her look good.

3. 7 out of 10 Actually got girls number and met her when I was on a trip for New Years visiting friend 5 hours away. We talk about the bachelor all the time, especially during show, as well as Packers and football. So bachelor, football and our tinder interactions have been 3 connections with her. Would consider good friend. If I'm in her town ever again will probably let me stay at her place I have built up enough comfort.

4. 8.5-9 out of 10. "God is first" Christian kind of girl. Got another girl that watches bachelor. Attraction built through both being packer fans, our dogs, kayaking and bachelor. Will not give number, just got to be able to message her on FB. Tells me she is busy with work full time and grad school. Talked to her last two weeks about bachelor episodes and packer games and commonalities and building more comfort now that I have FB (texting) and have more of her attention.

5. Looking back, did have one failure. I opened with if she watched bachelor. She does but did not get to watch on first day. Had to watch a couple days later. I went a different route and did not bring up the bachelor and if she watched in future convos. But she went cold. May try and re gage for fun.

Will not be posting any more big details. Maybe when dates happen to further expand using bachelor addition into game.

I just thought this bachelor approach is useful as it leads to lengthy convos about show and future conversations on later episodes. You are right cannot build attraction just off of show but my thinking is it helps you stand out from the other guys and makes them more responsive. A tool to use in addition to existing game??!


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