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I recently relocated to Chicago. I always try online dating first to see If I can win some cheep dates. After all its a huge city, there's got to be some babes that want to hang out. Found some good photos, made a good profile.
BUT...
I don't know what it is, but I have been using POF and OKcupid and have had TERRIBLE luck on there.
I've used it before for my small town and in Nashville and had mixed results and a few lays. But in Chicago it is HORRIBLE!
All the women on there are complete cunts! And 90% just look at your profile and don't respond. I've tried every opener, and several different profiles.
My thoughts are:
1) In a large city like Chicago there are a lot of hot girls on the site, however there is probably like 10x more dudes. Every women has her pick from over 50+ dudes probably every day. So unless your a rockstar or Chaning tatum she will probably view you and lose you.
2) Women use, especially hot women, don't use POF/dating sites seriously. They go on there, throw up a shitty profile just to get attention and validation. Plus its the internet so women can be as bitchy and stuck up as they want. In person they would probably be a lot more polite.
3) If a women, esp hot ones, really wanted to online date, they would probably use a paid site, like Match, or Eharmony. (I haven't actually tried a paid site so I can't really judge.)
I would recommend never using online dating. It's just not worth it. It will only work to lower your self esteem and in the end make you lazy and not go out and sarge. Hurting your game. The real game is outside.
Thoughts? How has others online experience been?
Actually as soon as I gave up and started telling women they were lame and boring, and I put absurd shit in my profile, like this site sucks, full of dumb bitches, etc. I got like 3 numbers the same night...
Interesting.