Hey man,
Well, I think your first learning experience (there is no such thing as a mistake) you can take away from this is that you should
never ask a girl to ring/text you, always tell (not ask) her that you will call her when you want to meet up. Remember, you are the one in control of the situation at all time and YOU call the shots, not her.
Second, I think you might want to learn some boyfriend destroyer lines (or, if you are into NLP, learn some boyfriend destroyer patterns. However for now, just learn some lines.) Here is a very good boyfriend destroyer routine:
Quote:
"I'm gonna ask you some questions, and I don't want you to answer with words. I want you to answer with your hand. I'm gonna ask you about some things like your job. If something is close to your heart, hold your hand close to your heart. If it's far away, hold your hand far away. If it's in between, hold your hand there. Now, how close is your job to your heart?"
"Think about something you're really passionate about, like a hobby. Do you have it? How close is that to your heart?"
"How close is your boyfriend to your heart?"
"How close is your family to your heart?"
"Now, if I was to offer you another job that was right there [you move her hand near her face, closer than her original job], would you take it?"
She answers yes.
"And if a some guy came along who was right there [you move her hand so it's touching her nose], would you take him?"
She answers yes, and when she does quietly say yes as well. If she doesn't, look her in the eye (deeply) and say, "yes, you would".
Good job though man.
- Memento
CHAT
