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Kardinal
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 Posted: Sat Jan 26, 2008 12:24 am Post subject: oh god it was bad |
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the night started bad and kept getting worse, i was out with all my friends but unfortunately my ex gf and i have alot of friends in common and i found myself out with her aswel. only been broke up a week (got straight back into the game) and things are still hard, after a brilliant night out last night with good successes i wasnt going to let it put me off.
i approached my first set with no wing man and i new it was going to be hard, i won the set ova and began to neg a hb7, who then pointed out a blonde girl was givin her dirty looks, i looked ova to see my ex with a face like thunder. i brushed this off bt it had thrown me off my stride and i withdrew to fight another day.
the next was a girl alone, i opened with an opinion opener drawing on personel experiences, i winged it with
"hey, do you mind if i ask you opinion, will only take a second, just need a womans point of view"
brunette7/8: "ok" with a bubbly smile,
"if you had recently broken up with some one, would you be able to go out on a night out with them as a friend"
the conversation went on with her explainin it depends how you broke up etc....
i run the cube and then just let things flow, natural conversation and found myself swapping numbers with her and leaving with a kiss on the cheak, with my ex gf's eyes burning a hole in the back of my head and no wing my my night was ova before it had started and at 12.24 i am already home
any thing you guys think i should have done then throw it my way |
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Kontrol
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| Posted: Sat Jan 26, 2008 2:50 am Post subject: |
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| so how was that a bad night? |
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Kardinal
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| Posted: Sat Jan 26, 2008 5:46 am Post subject: |
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| coz im still so hung up about my ex that i cnt approach while i no she is near, and we go to the same bars, clubs, pubs and party's, never start a relationship with a friend, no matter how hot they are! its nt gud |
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speed-bird
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| Posted: Sat Jan 26, 2008 8:12 am Post subject: |
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| Your ex burned you, now she's jealous. What's the problem? You don't have to f-close to make a girl jealous. Plus, she's not always gonna be around. It's a matter of time before you find yourself out one night with her nowhere in sight, your flow will be a lot better, you'll get back into the swing of things, although it sounds to me like you're doing okay. I mean, a # close and a cheek kiss is not a bad outcome on any night. |
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Nex
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| Posted: Sat Jan 26, 2008 11:26 am Post subject: |
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| Dude, you did great. Sounds like you had good approach and routines. Your ex going out with you is arguably working to your favor. This is interesting, keep us updated. |
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