NLP combined with Sex, can be really fucking great
Especially if the woman has already been gradually adapted to it.
I mean, if you just launch into a full NLP pattern during sex, it might turn out weird.
But if you gradually go from starting out, maybe on phone etc. so she gets used to the association of your "sex-voice" or trance-voice. (I usually simply go slightly deeper in pitch.) with the orgasm, you can gradually transfer that to sex.
I've previously mentioned a technique I used with a woman (whom I'd been doing for a long time, so she automatically enters almost like a trance, taking my suggestions regardless, as long as I use the deeper pitch.)
Where I simply talked her through being fucked first, without doing anything, (just first describe what you'd do, then get her to tell you how that -would- feel, then you describe it back, when you do x (without doing it) how she can feel -whatever she gave you-.
and doing this, you can theoretically (and practically) give her an orgasm without stimulation at all... at all.
Purely Thinking about sex, especially if there is a person guiding her through the experience, so she doesn't have to step out of it, but can just enjoy the imagination, can give her an orgasm.
Using that knowledge, you can simply describe to her how she can feel you inside her, as you penetrate her. (get her really focused on the experience, and thus heightening the experience
You can also, when you have had her tell you the experience in deeper detail, so you can apply all that
, tell her that she'll feel the orgasm build from just feeling you glide slowly into her (You can give her an orgasm from being penetrated just once, if you want
(This is best done if you've talked her through, or almost through it first, in my experience.
I've told a girl that every penetration (really slow) was going to be like an entire orgasm, building up.
So when I, painstakingly slowly, penetrated her, it was, to her, as though it was an entire act, playing out in that one stroke.
If you then also, as I did, told her she would just almost come from the penetration, you can stack orgasms using this.
Think about it;
That means that 10, slow, penetrations from your side, is like her being fucked to the brink of orgasm 10 times.
And when she's told to come (by now she'll most likely be in sexual ecstasy) she'll be left having 10 orgasms in 1, which leave most women shaking for a long time
Another thing you can do is to watch her body-language, and get a feel for how she is right before she's about to come.
Then, at some other time, you pace her first, then lead her into that state.
She'll be getting turned on like there's no tomorrow, out of something as simple as you, seemingly, just looking at her
Those were the two I've used with most success, so far.
Look into David Shade,
Maybe stuff about hypnosis and NLP, and try it out.
You can, basically, lead anyone into any state by pacing/leading, if you do it powerfully enough.
and by building a sexual trance, you can, over time, teach her body to respond so powerfully to your suggestions that a simple "I want you to Come, Now!" can trigger an orgasm. (basically anchoring/pavlovian conditioning)
(or if you're a bastard, get yourself a tiny Bell, like Pavlov used on his dog, and ring it every time she comes. Then after a few dozen times, try ringing the bell in a completely normal situation.
But seriously, experiment around with all the things you learn, and try most of them in sexual settings.
Worst case is you'll have to fuck her in a completely normal way.
best case, you get to turn her on like no man ever has, and give her orgasms that she'd only be able to dream about,
I've even done something as simple as this, after a long outdrawn sex-act; tell her "you're going to come harder and more intensely than you've ever come before" (if you say it in a deeper voice, close to her ear, and she doesn't object (why would she?) her unconscious will most likely accept the offer, and give her the most intense orgasm she's ever had....)
Can't hurt to try, right