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PostPosted: Thu Sep 01, 2016 4:45 pm 
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How do i reframe with sleight of mouth the following.ITs to expensive, im to busy, i don`t have the time, i have a boyfriend.

THe hirearchy of criteria,
Don`t you think that you could get a lot more value for paying a higher price
Don`t you think that making some time for this or that will make you a lot happier
Don`t you think that if you give more time you`ll have more time?
The last one i have no ideea.

THe consequence pattern
iF YOU DOn`t pay more you`re probably not gonna have much out of it
Thinking that you are to busy is self fufilling profecy wich will tend to repeate itself every day
the last 2 still have no clue

Another outcome pattern
THe real issue isn`t that is to expensive its that i just can`t afford it
The real issune isn`t that i`m to busy it`s just that i don`t see how i can help you?(not sure about this one)
The issue isn`t that i don`t have time for you its just that i have a lot of work to do with my job and i can`t allocate any of my time to friends.
The issue isn`t that i have a boyfriend but the fact that im not ready now for a relationship

REdefine pattern
its not that its truly expensive its just that i don`t feel confortable spending so much money
It`s not that i am too busy its that im focused now on other things
Its not that i have no time its the fact that i am engaged now in a lot of other activieties that take out a lot of my time
its not the fact that i have a boyfriend its the fact that i`ve been hurt in love so many times

Methaphor analogy
If it delivers you a lot of value it`s not really that expensive it`s just that you probably can`t afford
if it means that im too busy dosen`t mean that i don`t have time for you it just means that i have a lot on my plate right now
If it mean that i don`t have the time it`s because im preocupated with a lot of things right now and i can`t allocate any of my time
No idea for the last one

Chunking down
How specificaly is it more expensive compared to what
How specificaly do you mean that you are busy with what are you busy with
How specificaly do you don`t have time what is it occupied with
No idea

Chuncking up
So do you mean that everyghing that is above youre means is unaffordable for everyone else
Are you saying that the fact the you are to busy right know means that you won`t have any time even in the future
Are you saying that the fact that you don`t have any time is tha main reason you can`t see me tommorow
No idea

Counter example
Isn`t it possible that you just can`t affort it and that its not really to expensive
Isn`t possible that the fact that you are to busy is caused by the fact that you have poor time management skills
Isn`t it possible that the fact that you have no time is because you`re preocupated with things that arrent important
no idea

Intent pattern,
I know that youre intetion is not to overpay but isn`t it more expensive because it offers you the most value for your money
Since you are to busy right now i`m sure that you will find a posibilty for you to meet with me in the future
My intent wasn`t to not have time for you its just that other things have come up
no idea

Model of the WORLD
Not all people think that its too expensive some belive that its farily priced
Most people that i know and are to busy today usually find a spot for me the following week
You may say that you have no time but thats just an excuse
no idea

REality strategy
How would you know that this is too expensive if you haven`t tryed it out to see what i can offer you
How specificaly are you busy what exactly do you have to do
how would you know if you don`t have the time when you don`t know what i have to offer
How speficilay do you have one how long have you been dating

Apply to self
A person wich is concered with value would be able to overlook if the price is a little high
Are you sure that you are to busy to squeeze me in even tomorow
ISn`t it the fact that you have no time do to the fact that you do to many unecesary things
no idea

Change frame size
it may seem more expensive to you know but if you look in the long run you will see the benefits
Is that truly what you belive or is it the fact that you can`t squeeze me in
No idea for the last 2

Metaframe
You`re just saying that because you`re not focused on the value that it offers you
You`re just saying that because you`re focused on doing so many things that you don`t have time for what matters
No ideea for the last 2


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PostPosted: Thu Sep 01, 2016 5:33 pm 
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Isn't it spelled "Sleight"?

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PostPosted: Thu Sep 01, 2016 5:38 pm 
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Heywood Jablowme wrote:
Isn't it spelled "Sleight"?

OK sleight you get the picture can you help me out a little?


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PostPosted: Thu Sep 01, 2016 7:13 pm 
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ion80 wrote:
Heywood Jablowme wrote:
Isn't it spelled "Sleight"?

OK sleight you get the picture can you help me out a little?


Well, think of the greatest concept ever okay.

Now, imagine that it doesn't exist.

That's horrible right?

So it stands to reason, if this concept is so great it therefore must exist.

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Heywood Jablowme wrote:
ion80 wrote:
Heywood Jablowme wrote:
Isn't it spelled "Sleight"?

OK sleight you get the picture can you help me out a little?


Well, think of the greatest concept ever okay.

Now, imagine that it doesn't exist.

That's horrible right?

So it stands to reason, if this concept is so great it therefore must exist.


Didn`t get it its too confusing


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PostPosted: Thu Sep 01, 2016 8:02 pm 
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You don't need it. Sleight of mouth implies some sort of hypnotic-magic trick. There is no magic trick to help you sleep with women.

Tear yourself away from the safe comfort of certainties that are not getting you laid! If you learn this crap, will you approach more women?

Your just trying to build a wall around your comfort zone,

Step outside of it instead, everything your desire is just beyond the edge.

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PostPosted: Thu Sep 01, 2016 8:17 pm 
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Heywood Jablowme wrote:
You don't need it. Sleight of mouth implies some sort of hypnotic-magic trick. There is no magic trick to help you sleep with women.

Tear yourself away from the safe comfort of certainties that are not getting you laid! If you learn this crap, will you approach more women?

Your just trying to build a wall around your comfort zone,

Step outside of it instead, everything your desire is just beyond the edge.



I keep getting from women that i find attractive (not 10`s) im too busy i have a boyfriend i just don`t have time (ever)how do i go past this?


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ion80 wrote:
Heywood Jablowme wrote:
You don't need it. Sleight of mouth implies some sort of hypnotic-magic trick. There is no magic trick to help you sleep with women.

Tear yourself away from the safe comfort of certainties that are not getting you laid! If you learn this crap, will you approach more women?

Your just trying to build a wall around your comfort zone,

Step outside of it instead, everything your desire is just beyond the edge.



I keep getting from women that i find attractive (not 10`s) im too busy i have a boyfriend i just don`t have time (ever)how do i go past this?
Answer this. What is it about you that would make a woman that you find attractive, find you attractive? If you are consistently getting these types of responses, then you are doing something wrong or there is something about you that is lacking. Either way, there is probably a fix for you in most cases.

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PostPosted: Thu Sep 01, 2016 8:29 pm 
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I PM'ed you a little help.

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Heywood Jablowme wrote:
I PM'ed you a little help.


Yea but will it be possible to help me understand how to apply sleight of mouth in thsi dating contex.Ive read your PM it was good advice but i want to have something to say every time i hear an objection to persuade her.


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