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Yes, and it's all in your head...but very real. If you want even the slightest chance in performing OMS correctly, you must be a master at controlling your OWN state and mind. It's A LOT harder than it sounds and would theoretically take years of practicing NLP. Otherwise, you can seriously hurt yourself and others.
It's really not fucking worth it.
How exactly can it hurt you?
And I've seen tapping videos with disclaimers...How can tapping mess you up?
Anything that involves putting people in trance (everything in Speed Seduction) inherently involves you going into trance yourself. For both ethical and safety measures (the safety of your own self and the participant), there is a rule of "you go first."
If you are going to put another person into trance, you should already be familiar with exactly what the trance is like. Also, you should essentially be putting yourself through the trance as you are delivering the pattern or sequence.
Speed Seduction involves shared trance. Whether you like it or not, your "subject's" trance will affect your own state of mind. If you are leading her into a realm you haven't mastered, your mind will be pulled into unfamiliar territory. In the case of the OMS, that unfamiliar territory will have substantial effects on anyone's psyche.
"Forbidden" patterns are considered to be very advanced because of how deep and potentially uncontrollable those trance states can become. It is very difficult to master these mental realms yourself in the first place. Since putting people into trance puts YOU in the driver's seat, you are responsible for where you are leading yourself and the other person.
Only an expert in this area should be dabbling with the OMS. Would you trust a child in a swimsuit and a "How to Swim" book to lead you through a scuba-diving expedition through the depths on the ocean floor near the Bermuda Triangle? Wouldn't you be better off putting your trust in a trained professional?
Imagine yourself as that child. Curious, ambitious, excited... but you have no idea what you're getting yourself into. You have confidence from your ambition alone that you can lead them through the dark waters... but in reality there is great potential for you to seriously hurt yourself and the person you are leading. Following a trained professional can lead to a great adventure, filling you with amazing new visions you have never expected to get out of life, but it takes a special kind of disciplined person to possess the required skill to journey into those depths.
I once tried using the OMS with no prior practice of NLP or Speed Seduction. It made me feel like shit, I felt like I lost a bit of my humanity, and I felt like I was "confidently" driving drunk with other people in the car. It took me a long while to mentally recenter myself, and ever since I wish I had never learned the OMS. To this day, I feel like I would have more peace of mind if I were able to completely forget what it is.
After perhaps 5 years or so of practicing Speed Seduction (AND having successful results with the basics), I
may take another look at the OMS. Until then, I know that it wouldn't be safe for me to use it.
Oh, and we all know how much of a dick Ross Jeffries can be, right? Well, even
he frowns upon the use of forbidden patterns. That should tell you something.