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The October Man Sequence: Complex Tricks vs. fundamentals
Yes, that’s right. I’m finally about to give away the secret of the famous October Man Sequence to the world!
Here it is: There is no fucking October Man Sequence. Or, if there is, it’s definitely not worth knowing.
In case you didn’t know, it’s touted in the Game as a super-secret, powerful NLP ‘pattern’ that will magically make a woman incredibly attracted to you…in 15 minutes. Sounds like BS, right? Yet, it’s a question that people ask me surprisingly often in email and live coaching. What is the October Man Sequence? Do you have access to is? Can I learn it?
Not that there’s anything wrong with wanting to improve, far from it. But, the fame of the October Man Sequence does show the wrongheaded way that many guys are trying to improve.
When we encounter failure, the natural response is always to look for a “trick” or quick fix to the problem. This problem is especially pronounced in guys that are highly intelligent. They think, OK, how can I FIGURE OUT how to solve this problem? I must need to LEARN something new in order to solve it!
The problem is, in this game of attracting women, there are many problems that can’t be figured out. Most of the time problems arise from breakdowns in fundamentals.
Here’s an analogy: I fight mixed martial arts (MMA). When a guy loses a fight, many times his reaction is something like “If I only knew the spinning reverse flying death scissors move, I would have won! I should learn it right now!”
A bad coach will teach him the spinning reverse flying death scissors move, and the dude will walk away happy because he *thinks* he’s solved the problem. Actually though, the move did him no good and he continues to lose.
A good coach will recognize this natural human impulse to try and figure out our shortcomings and attribute them to some technique we don’t know. He’ll then tell his student the real reason why he lost — the other guy was bigger, faster, stronger, and did the basics better. In short, he had his FUNDAMENTALS down better.
Typically, the student doesn’t want to hear this. He’s done these stupid fundamentals a hundred times, and he thinks that he has them down. But, although he might of mastered them on an intellectual level, it takes much more than a hundred times of doing them to really master them. It takes thousands of times.
The only thing that will really help him is to drill those simple fundamentals over and over again until he REALLY masters them.
In pickup, it’s much the same way. Guys attribute failure to the lack of knowledge of advanced techniques, but that’s rarely the case. Most of the time, it’s the lack of real mastery of fundamentals.
Style and image, lack of hesitation, vibing, kino, being social and open, sexual presence, logistics. These are the basics that the naturals that are getting laid like rockstars are using.
Vin DiCarlo, whose game has been very influential on my own, once told me something that I never forgot. He said, the difference between a master and a novice isn’t that the master’s knowledge of advanced technques. While he does know these techniques, for the most part the master uses the exact same basic stuff as the beginner. What separates them is only that the master does the basics incredibly well.
So, if you’re looking to improve your dating life, don’t search for super secret flying scissors moves or October Man Sequences. Look for the BASICS that EVERYONE IS DOING. Do them better than everyone else by endless repetition and tiny incremental improvements on your basic technique.
Did you find this article looking for The October Man Sequence...but now are looking for a method of improving your confidence with women that ACTUALLY WORKS?
Well, here's the deal: NLP, hypnosis, and other new-age woo-woo stuff isn't going to do anything for your game. A loser who knows lots of complex NLP patterns isn't an attractive guy...he's just an even bigger loser than he was in the first place.
But...there was one thing that I found that improved my Sexual Confidence and inner game tremendously. When I learned sexual skills and became great in bed, I no longer had to pretend I was the prize. I actually BECAME the prize.
Think about it -- nothing is more integral to our self-esteem than sex. If you're a sexual failure -- if women don't even want to have sex with you because you don't have what it takes to please them -- these insecurities will carry over to your interactions with other women. No technique that you use will ever work.
On the flip side, if you are blowing your girl's mind every time you have sex with her...if you can give her orgasms so intense, she literally can't walk afterwards...your Sexual Confidence and inner game will go through the roof. You could use literally any technique, and be successful at seducing women.
Not to mention, if you become great in bed your relationship life will be much better. Sex is literally THE most important thing in relationships. If you don't have what it takes to please your girl, she'll manufacture BS reasons to break up with you like "I need some space" or "It's me, not you." But if you have sexual skills, you'll be able to hold a woman in a happy, drama-free relationships. You can even have multiple relationships, threesomes, etc. if you choose. This is the reality I live in now, and it's made possible by sex.
If you're interested in learning more about this critically important area of your life, check out The Sex God Method. It's the world's most hard-hitting and controversial sex manual, and the only one which Vin and many other reputable sources will verify is effective. You'll learn my devastatingly effective four-part method to giving a woman incredibly powerful screaming orgasms.
The Sex God Method
And, if you're serious about getting this part of your life HANDLED for good, you need to check out one of my Sexual Confidence Bootcamps. Through my patented series of intense, interactive exercises, you'll get the Sexual Confidence you need to rock any woman's world. Intellectually "knowing" that you should do dirty talk is one thing, but actually *practicing* dirty talk with one of my attractive female instructors with her encouragement and feedback...is another thing altogether.
The program is very complementary to Drills, so I encourage all Vin's students to check it out:
The Sexual Confidence Bootcamp
-Dan
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Daniel Rose, Author of The Sex God Method.
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