In the beginning of the incredible connection pattern, you say "maybe you were there, looking at them, and you began to listen intently" what's the purpose of saying this? So her unconscious will take it as a metaphors or what?

I'd kindly answer you only if I knew what you are talking about. "Incredible connection pattern" Geez... there's an incredible number of connection patterns, you could be a little more concrete about it.

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You:
Have you ever felt an INSTANTANEOUS connection with
someone? (Point to yourself) Like maybe as you were
there, looking at them, and you started to LISTEN
INTENTLY, it was like there was a cord of LIGHT
(gesture from your solar plexus to hers) going from
you to them? And as that cord began to GLOW, WITH THE
WARMTH of that connection, maybe you were even able to
IMAGINE A TIME IN YOUR FUTURE (gesture either to your
left or to your right … at this point it really
doesn’t matter), say six months from now, still
FEELING THAT SENSE OF INCREDIBLE CONNECTION, and
LOOKING BACK ON TODAY (point back to you) as having
been the start of it?


This is the pattern. I just don't get the purpose of saying that at the beginning. Thanks for any replies

It just helps her visualise and go deeper in her thoughts.

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It's a reality pace, and also ambiguous. Generally, when she felt connections like this with people in her life, she was there, looking at them, listening to their voices.

When you say "as you listen to this voice, look at this face, and feel this connection," (or something like that) you're making her ask "is he talking about that time when I felt a connection, or what's happening right here?"

Now that you've gotten an answer to your question, as you think about how you can use this and imagine how you can get what you want while making people feel wonderful, how quickly and easily can you see yourself having this conversation with someone in the future?

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its pacing, "as you're there," and "looking at them," are statements that her unconscious mind can confirm as true. It's like right now, you're looking at a screen, reading my words, and you may find yourself becoming aware of why the incredible connection pattern has that type of language.