What should you do if you cum to fast? Should i say something to her? Can you guys share some experiences with us?

Oops i did it again:)

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Your cumming too fast because your turned on by the women you have. Talking to her will.. Turn her on more... more often then not..

I would not say anything if this is your issue. It happens to the best of us. When I am with a new girl. I am usually premature, in this regard. I usually say something like "next time will be longer babe."

Its cool because it lets her know you wanna fuck again.

I think that saying something is not not necessary in the first few times. Or if your young.

However if you must talk talk talk. I suggest that you have a sit down with her after you tried a few things and see what it is that she likes. Remember to try first, she will respect the forthcumming haha.

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OK, thanks for the help. But how could i hold myself not to cum too fast? Should i change positions more often, should i imagine something that doesnt turn me on, something ugly If i dont masturbate for months, will i last longer?

I don't masturbate at all. Then again I have two girlfriends. If I don't wanna cum, I just tell her to "Slow down baby." If you have good communication then she should understand. Other then that I heard somewhere that clinching your butt cheeks works. However I never did this one... Best of luck with your issue.

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I also do not masturbate, i think that will help me last longer. But i also heard that masturbation during the day will help you last longer with a girl at night. Not really sure about it.

There's a thread I started over in PUA lounge which might give you an idea of how likely you are to have various problems. It's called "the first time I got naked with a girl I..."

One work around:
"I don't go all the way on the first night, but me and my tongue will make you cum so hard that you'll forget your name"

In order for this to work, do some reading; you need to be able to give her at least one real orgasm. After that, you're basically free to mess up all you want as you've got her off at least once.

Words of wisdom brother. I used to be really nervous for the first time with a girl, even had issues getting it up. Now, if I'm not feeling aroused, I just take her hand and put it down there. Foreplay's gotta be mutual baby

I waited too long for it m8. Just get it over with, it's gonna suck ballz. I couldn't come at all the 1st 4times. just something u gotta get done!

The problem with this is not all girls can be gone down on.......unless they get tested, but if its a hookup, i don't think so.

Cha - Bra is spot on and me as well my first time was less than steller. Only advice I have is that if its not something you care about being special do it with someone whom you dont really care what they think about you afterwards. Its kind of like a warm up set before a real pick up . Relax and take your time lots of foreplay is key . I cant emphisize that enough . Lots of fore play then go down on her that way it will extend your sexual time and help you get her off or stimulate her longer in case you blow your load quick like .

If any guy, no matter how 'alpha', tells you they weren't nervous the first time they got a piece, they're either lying or have brain damage. Period.

And trust me, It'll go away somewhere in between lay #25 to 50.

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I still get nervous sleeping with a new partner, I've slept with 12 women now which is lower than a lot of guys on here but I've had a lot of sex with them since I don't often do one night stands. I've got a pretty much guaranteed lay next week and yeah, part of me will be nervous it's ok to be.

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You should read Mantak Chia and Douglas Abram "Multi orgasmic man"
and many similiar titles by Mantak Chia on taoist teachings.If you can just master
being multi orgasmic you will be in high demand. You will be in a win win
situation for you and your partner.

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This works for a virgin?