Im equally sorry, u havent presented other than u dont THINK we are hardwired a certain way.a shred
No, you didn't understand my point. I don't mean we are not hardwired. I mean, I feel attraction for a hot woman ... this is hardwired. There is nothing I can do about that. Nobody thought me this. It is just a feeling that suddenly popped out and I have no control over that.
What I wanted to say is that fear of approaching women is not hard wired.
[quote="40 year old virgins broth"]
http://www.mensxp.com/dating/inner-game ... ction.html
We are hardwired to fear creativity
http://io9.com/5837333/our-brains-are-h ... creativity
So we are hardwired to reject science(as you appear to be)
http://daily.sightline.org/2011/02/01/a ... t-science/
we are hardwired to cheat:
http://morningquickie.com/2010/08/04/me ... accept-it/
First ... don't tell me I reject science. Just for the record, science is my life. I have a PhD in engineering.
Second ... as a scientist I want to make you aware that you can't just believe everything you read and take that as a science. The website www.mensxp.com/dating
has no scientific value at all. And the other websites ... never heard of them. If you would be publishing in the scientific community yourself you would be more carefull about citing sites like that. You should only cite from sources that have a significant scientific impact factor. That is why publishing in Nature is hard. Articles in Nature are reviewed very thoroughly and only if your material is 100 % correct and really good, the article will be published. But because of the review process people know that these articles have a very high scientific value.
The only valid point in the articles is that people are hardwire to fear the new (what they don't know). If you put me in a room with some green Alien, I will shit my pants ... the reason is not that because of evolution I am hardwired to be scared of Aliens. How could that be ? My ancestors have never even met an alien so how can it be hardwired ? I am scared of the Alien because it is new to me. If I would be like the publishers of these articles, I could publish an article now about hard wired Alien anxiety. I hope you get my point. The rejection of science or creativity is not because people don't want to accept science. They don't want to accept NEW things. A scientist has no problem to accept correct science; but go tell a religious guy about science ... I tried ... they reject everything that goes against their belief even if the proof is completely obvious and clear.
If AA would be hard wired there is nothing you could do about it. Why ? Because that is the definition of hard wired. You disagree on this. Well, you are attracted to women, right ? I also assume that if you see a really hot woman you feel an uncontrollable desire for her. Do you think that there is a way for you to lose that feeling ? So I mean, some CBT or exposure method to desentesize you such that you will stop feeling attraction for woman ? I am 100 % sure that this is not possible (of course without taking medicine to change your hormonal functionality). It is not possible because it is hard wired. But the simple fact that people do get rid of AA proves that AA is not hard wired.
But OK, this is all I have to say about the subject. Feel free to reply and disagree again. I will read it but I will stop the discussion because we are deviating from the topic.[quote][/quote]