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Doodlydoo
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 Posted: Wed Nov 14, 2007 10:14 pm Post subject: Newb needs help. |
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So I've been talking to this HB(7) for about a week, throwing a couple negs here and there not to many. She is very shy around me, often we can't even have a normal conversation.
Anyways I ask her if she wants to do something with me, she says yes. I call her a day later to set it up, She doesn't answer. So I message her asking if she would like to go to a movie tonight. She replys saying she has school but I should hit her up next week.
Now I'm new to these forums but next week is thanksgiving and that is a huge leykis no-no.
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Rye Lee
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| Posted: Wed Nov 14, 2007 10:20 pm Post subject: |
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| Well, I'd go for a day during the week, not on the weekend. Weekend outtings are so much more "date like", which is a bad thing, you want it to just be hanging out. Do something after school some day. |
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shurgs
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| Posted: Thu Nov 15, 2007 3:57 am Post subject: |
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Also to add to what rye lee said,
when she said yes, you suggested a movie... how common is that? its unoriginal... also had she said yes during the movie you would have had no time to get to know her because you have to be quiet in theaters and focus on the movie or people will get mad... also, in most theaters you can not raise the armrest between the two of you...thus creating seperation no matter how things are going which ultimately limits the amount of kino you can build... now there are some theaters that do offer the feature of raising the arm rest...so in the future if you choose movies for the hangout... choose one with the option mentioned above...
Now its better to suggest seeign a movie at your place or hers...
if its hers, do a lil research and find out what kind of candy she likes(preferably this is done weeks or days prior to the hangout) What this does is let you learn somehting special about her that she will be happy to tell you about because its one of her favorite things.
When she tells you store that information for later use...
Back to the movie at her place... show up with a popcorn bucket, a few bags of microwavable popcorn, and what else??? any ideas???
HER FAVORITE CANDY! because you know what it is since u stored that information...
now you have created an atmosphere that is much more conducive to building kino... talking or not... and just hanging out...and i is also cheaper than the movies...
Just a thought[/list] |
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