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Telling him he went AFC and how he's appearing stalkerish (which he's not) is no help.
Anyway, winning an ex back is tough as she knows you, and she might have moved on already. Going to the bar and being the center of attention is too much trouble and the logistics of it all are absurd - unless of course you know which bar she hangs out at. I'd simply contact her via text with something light hearted and funny; she may not be ready to hear your voice right now so you may have to start low and escalate gradually from there. Honestly, I think the advice ppl gave you in this thread is retarded - makes me wonder how many virgins/arm chair PUAs there are on this board.
I don't think a text would be the right way to go... It just doesn't sounds like the type of thing she wouldn't be into.
WhileI don't know all the places she goes to, but I know for a fact she goes to the same club the same night of the week every week because her friends are all part of the music crew there. Like I said, I know how to bump into her. She knows that I can take the attention of the group if I want. I have become a recognizable face not only in my own community because of my band, but also in her's because a lot of their DJs like my band. Not to mention I make enough money I can throw it around a little bit by buying a round of drinks and such. So getting the full attention of the place she is at wouldn't be the hardest thing in the world. The hard part would be making sure I got her attention. I'm still not sure how she would react if she saw me.
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