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Virgil07
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 Posted: Fri Jul 11, 2008 2:37 am Post subject: Need help plz!! |
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Hey guys I just number closed an HB9 yesterday.
When I called her today, I told her dhv stories and was also making her laugh.
Then I was gonna go, and told her that I was going to the Houston Galleria on Sunday and she could "tag along" if she wanted.
Then she was like, "oh sure it's been a while since I've went to the Galleria. I have to check my work schedule if I work on Sunday. I'll call you and let you know if I'm free."
Ok, so now I'm just stuck and I just want a definite answer. I don't even know if she'll call me back.
But, I was pretty sure that I attracted her a whole lot when I number closed her.
So should I call her or text her? Or not call at all?
Any advice would help.
Thanks
-Virgil07 |
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thatkidej
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I'd say don't call her. If she wants to go, she'll call you.
Edit: I mean don't bug her specifically about going out. I'd still send a cocky text or two to her at some point, there's a bunch on other threads.
If she doesn't, I'd say call her on Sunday she ruined your taking her out, so now she's gotta take you out to make up for it. Haha. |
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djay
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| Posted: Fri Jul 11, 2008 7:12 pm Post subject: |
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| the book says don't call back because you seem needy, however, you could call her when your doing nothing so shes filling your time, say nothing about the offer to go out, just really a reminder that your around. but i agree if u call and ask her about the day2 you'll be needy and you should have loads of girls....so they say u should anyway |
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bxracer1
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| Posted: Fri Jul 11, 2008 9:15 pm Post subject: |
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| I'd say wait til tomorrow, send a text or 2 and let it flow if she gives you an answer about going, great, if not just move on. Once you start acting needy you have given the cat the string |
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Virgil07
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Ok so what what happened was that after i texted her. She texted me back wayyy later.
Seriously I almost forgot about her until she told me that she lost all of her phone numbers and her telephone company (T-Mobile) screwed her over.
Seriously every time I talk to her, I can always that she's smiling and I think that's a good think.
She was with her family so I told her that I was going to call her tomorrow, to discuss what we're going to do at the galleria.
She was like, "So far I'm going on Sunday, but if anything changes I'll call you."
Did I score guys? Or is there something else I should be worry about? |
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wyvern08
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She saying she has lost all her numbers is quite suspicious. How many times does that really happen?
Guess you'll just have to see whether she flakes on the day or not. Maybe you should take the opportunity to build more comfort in the meantime. |
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pwscottiv
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| Virgil07 wrote: | Ok so what what happened was that after i texted her. She texted me back wayyy later.
Seriously I almost forgot about her until she told me that she lost all of her phone numbers and her telephone company (T-Mobile) screwed her over.
Seriously every time I talk to her, I can always that she's smiling and I think that's a good think.
She was with her family so I told her that I was going to call her tomorrow, to discuss what we're going to do at the galleria.
She was like, "So far I'm going on Sunday, but if anything changes I'll call you."
Did I score guys? Or is there something else I should be worry about? |
It's totally possible that there's other guys she's involved with. Therefore, don't take it too personally (beyond trying to see where you might have made mistakes and learning from them)... If she still sounds happy to hear from you, then she might be trying to make up her mind. Giving her some space would be better than calling anytime soon. I had the same thing happen over the period of about a month... I took a 9/10 skydiving and we really hit it off... She was really happy to hear from me when I called, and she called/texted me constantly... However, she would always come up with excuses why she couldn't meet up in person... But I would only call/text her back about 10% of the time. I've been dating other girls on and off, so I really didn't give a shit... Which is a really good rule that Mystery teaches... Don't make a big deal out of stuff - Because it's NOT a big deal.
Last week I sealed the deal on our 2nd meeting... I got her to make me dinner and desert at my house when she lost a bet with the "answer 5-questions wrong" routine over the phone.
The next morning she admitted that she had a long-term boyfriend and she hadn't been able to make up her mind right away.
On a side note, out of curiosity, I asked her where she was in her cycle... I'm sure most of you can guess... Right in between her periods (ovulation). Which is the time when women are most likely to cheat. Which from an evolutionary standpoint is the best method to achieve the highest degree of genetic diversity (cheating as opposed to sex with the regular partner)... Interesting. |
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The_Prince
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your kinda chasing after her about this when you ask somone if they want to tag along you dont really worry if they come or not like this its pretty obviouse to her by now that this is a full blown date ( not good for the first time )i heard david deangelo say something like this i think it applies here.
" one of my pet peves are flakey people so on a scale from one to ten how likely are you to call of or not show up ......... if she says anything but 10 tell her to get back at you when she can say ten.
never used it i would if it came to it
..this is for a date thoughif you ask a girl to tag along you cant be that pushy just text her and call her like you never invited her your trying to portray its no nig deal she is coming any way right |
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