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I mean, these books/ebooks etc sell because people fail on being a good natural. But being natural means not using standard or canned material right?
a lot of naturals use their own canned material, that is if you hang around some of them long enough then you will start to notice they have their favourite phrases, anecdotes, observations and such (it's only natural
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Basically saying natural is like being AFC, but you know what to say.
Please explain.
it's not about what you say, it's about how you say it. It is possible to score with a hot girl in a club by saying hardly anything... shit man, you can just snap photos of them all the time - girls love to pose for the camera.
so you can think of it more like it's not knowing what to say, it's knowing how to act. personally, if I had to study these ebooks, I would fail miserably... but for people who really need help with their game, I would say the great value of these books is to point people in the right direction, to learn the right attitude that works for them. Not to learn specific canned phrases.
The natural lives in his own world. This world seems completely normal to him but perhaps a bit unbelievable to guys who have not seen naturals in action.
Naturals often turn down girls who most normal guys would give their left arm for...
Naturals sometimes hear shit like a girl saying to her gf "I want to take him home with me", when she is standing right next to him... (I still think that is a bit fucked
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AFC -> PUA... I'm guessing 1 in 10, dunno just pulled it out of a hat
AFC -> Natural... much harder (and I'm guessing that AFC would be a natural anyway, who just had a bunch of shit he had to unlearn)
for average PUAs it is still a "numbers game", although they can get way better results than an AFC and obviously if they were to hit on 7s and 8s the results would be quite impressive.
For top PUAs and true naturals, it is not a numbers game because practically every girl and hot ass babe is into you.
Imagine kissing a hot blonde a bit in a public place, looking down and thinking "gee those look firm"... then pulling the top of her shirt forward and sticking your hand down there to feel. Then having her say "that's not very nice". You say "I know"... but still leave your hand down the shirt, groping - cause damn they do feel firm! That's the world of the natural...