Hey folks.

So I'll be getting a new job soon - working in a bar. I'm looking for some advice on how to become "The Man" at work. I should explain that I DO NOT want to enter a LTR with anyof the girls working there (although they are mostly HB 7-9s) because i've heard so many times that its just a bad idea. What I want is to be perceived as an attractive guy and an Alpha male. I want the girls to want me and the men respect me.

How can I go about this? what sort of traits shoudl i display, what sort of routines should i use?

- Travis.

Great post, id like to know also please post!

thanks to The Edge:

True Natural Game DHV’s:

• Great state regardless of the social feedback of other people.
• You don't supplicate and give your power away.
• Being able to fill or relax in awkward silences.
• Unreactive
• Vibe-sensitive. (Feeling subtle shifts in the interaction and never letting it get too negative, quiet or low-energy).
• Being the source of energy and good emotions.
• No active searching for indicators of interest (IOI’s) or fishing for compliments.
• Making people who are trying to 1-up feel like they are failing. Even cock blocks and alpha males are helping you and are on your side.
• Subtly screening girls you interact with.
• No qualifying, validation or approval seeking.
• Being present and in the moment.
• Not drawing emotion or state from the environment
• Feeling of self respect and high self worth.
• Perpetual and influential good feeling
• Assertive and unhesitant
• Well calibrated and socially savvy to all people not just the one you are talking to.
• Help people rise to their aspirations.
• Break rapport. shows non-neediness, standards and self contentment
• Talking about topics in detail without actually talking about any personal achievements within it.
• Body language well dialled and honed
• Not relying on alcohol. Visibly makes you sloppy and clouds your judgement.

The above examples are of how often natural guys without 'flashy looking game' will get laid. They are potent.

have fun, bartending is the coolest job..

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