Hey, this is my first forum post here and I have been reading here a lot, anyways.
I have been knowing this girl for about 4 months and to keep it pretty short I want to give you the "big" details. She have been in a relationship with a beta guy for about 2 years, he's doing sport and is just not that Alpha male, from what I have heard. This girl I met is pretty much HB8 but with low self confidence what I have analyzed, for example she like to "write" over her nose on snapchat etc. I also think that she likes to know many people and for example she can sit on my knee but after 10 mins she can sit on another guys knee, but she comes back to me if I'm looking to have fun.
I'm living in a smaller city and we have seen each other but not really knowing each other but that changed 4 months ago. My friendzoned friend burrowed my phone to call her at a party and after that she had my number. Some weeks after that party I got a text from her telling me that "I can't make it to the practice today, she had no one that could drive her." and I answered like what? and then she told me "Oh my couch name is the same haha ;>", She also told me that her coach has the same name as me, and then the chatting just continued, and what I think she just made an excuse to contact me but I don't know what u guys think reply what u think!
We chatted for about 1 week and made the plan to go party together and of course I kept chatting with her because she's looking amazing etc and we went to a "Before party" and drank some and chatted, got a lot of IOIS for example she was a bit nervous and scratched me on the back. Then only me and her went to a party and we talked, laughed and at one point when we was smoking a ciggarette, she told me: "Come, I wan't to show you one thing.", I was like what's up now and then she told me some words and I saw that she was nervous and she came closer and we made out. I was in shock after that and sadly much didn't happened and she went a bit cold I think and I didn't know what to do after that so I went home after like 1 hour. This was the really first initiation or what I should call it.
After this we chatted on via snapchat and she flirted a lot, started conversation with me like 50/50, and we went to some parties but not much happened but I made some missteps and didn't initiate but that's a to long story. When I was a bit mad when we were driving around with my friends she was with me and I was drinking and I went to a girl and she saw me texting and when I stepped out of the car to walk to this girl she snapped me immediately: "You know that I wish you good luck
;););)" and a lot of things like that so I think she went a bit jealous, but I didn't do anything with this girl so I came back to the car after like 30 minutes and she looked a bit mad and everyone went home after another 30 minutes. She also gives questions what I'm going to study when I'm finished at upper secondary school, I know that her sister is studying and this girl also wants to do it. but I wan't to tell you guys how our relation is today.
Last weekend there was a party and we had "Before party" at my place and I met her up to show her my place, she told me she couldn't remember where it was so I met her up. (She have been on my place like 3 times before.) So I met her up solo and we spoke some about this girl I went to and I kind of sorted it out but she still pointed it out. We drank some watched some TV laughed with my and her friends and she always sat close to me and sometimes scratched my back. I asked her out for a ciggarette and we talked some and I initiated a kiss. After that we went in again to drink some more and she started to talk about this girl again so I went mad and told her to stop and she obviously noticed that I was mad for real and started to say like "Stop, don't be like this now sorry." and I went to my locked room to lock it up and just relax, and after I went in to the room she knocked like 10 seconds after I went in and we just laid on my bed and she told me she was a bit dizzy and she told me "Let's go out and drink some." and I told her "Okay, fine you can go out I'll be here for like 15 minutes." and when I started to lockup the door she told me "Nono, I'll wait here." and then I told her to come closer and we made out and then went out to party. We sat in the same car to the "big" party and we had some kino like touching each others knee and scratching etc. At the big party I went a bit cold and disappeared from her and she called me, but I didn't notice it and she was pretty much asking me to come out for a ciggarette but there was a lot of people out there smoking so much didn't happen. We kept parting talking with other friends and girls and at some point we was going to another party and this girl followed with me of course. This girls female friend was with us and she kind of followed my target and was going to the same party so I went cold and just walked out of the car, and my target texted me like 10 seconds after "Where are you going??" and called me 1 minute after when I didn't pick up. We met up again to go to some after party and there was not much people there and much didn't happened there, I was a bit mad didn't know why so I went home and she texted me "Did you leave?!?!?!?, after party at your place?!?!" and called me but I was a bit off didn't know why.... and then I just fall asleep. The day after she texted me that it was fun but I was a "Quitter" that just left without saying anything.
As I told you this was 1 week ago and after this she started to initiate 80% of our snapchats and if I went cold and didn't answer she told me "What have happened to you?!?!" and she have been told me that like 5 times now. There will be no party until nextweek and she told me that one guy birthed 18 and they are going to celebrate him or her and I told her like "Aha Okay
" and after that she told me that she's just probably going there not 100% sure. (I'm 100% sure that her boyfriend is going there.)
I also went mad again some weeks ago and after a party I told her that I like her and we spoke some at the phone but she didn't say much about that and told me like "I know..". Just so you know guys.
So what do you guys think of this? I'm really confused and need some help that's why I started this thread.... How are our relation? Etc I want that kind of answers, what should I do????
I can give you more information if you wan't to, over and out
/Tangsay