Is this whole PUA thing just a complete disaster? Are PUAs are actually destroying their lives without even noticing it?
All those guys who are famous PUAs today, how they become that? Well, they become PUAs because they didn't like who they are and didn't have basic social skills and
assertiveness skills. Instead on working on that, they choose different(in my opinion, wrong way) way of getting girls.
If you learn how to pick up girls the healthy way, that's exactly what you do. Become a more socially aggressive person.
That what they are doing, it is not about girls anymore. You started doing this to get girls, but let's be honest, do you care about them at all? How can you care about a girl you met
and fucked on one night and then tomorow fucked another? You don't even remember their names or anything about them. You don't do this to get girls, you doing this to pump
your ego. You run endless cycle of having new girl every night and you are lost in it.
I've fallen in love more times than I can count to be honest. That's what I feel makes me "experienced." I've been around the block a few times. Theres no secret I know or special tricks I use to get girls to sleep with me. I am who I am because of what I've been through.
The problem you guys who want to learn from PUAs have is actualy a low self esteem and not having basic social skills. You don't have to be PUA or something like that to get girls.
You don't have to know any PUA rules. Even this guys who say they are "Natural" are actually talking bullshit. If they are natural they won't be analizing all that stuff and they
won't even be familiar with PUA phrases.
You don't need that shit. You actually just need to go to shrink and fix your confidence, social skills and self esteem. That's all you need!
If you do that, you will have girlfriends that like you for who you are, and if you learn PUA skills they won't be with you because of who you are, they will be with you
because you used your tricks to manipulate with them. At the end, how you would now which girl is right for you, when you now that you get all of them not because who you are,
but because you used learned tricks?
So you'd rather see a shrink, who's gonna put you on pills... than someone with some dating experience, to fix your dating life. Well, you fooled me. You're a lot dumber than I thought you were.
You know what fixes someone's confidence? Someone that can help them get their life in direction. Not a shrink.
You know what builds social skills? Actually going out and talking to people. Engaging in conversations. Not a shrink.
You know what builds self esteem? Fixing your style and making yourself feel good. Learning how to communicate better. Working out and getting in shape.... and then having some cute girl throw herself at you and shower you with compliments. Try it. It feels pretty damn good.
Here's a couple of questions that I would like to be answered by professional PUA:
How long did last your longest relationship?
Well, I was married for 2 and a half and that was a pretty toxic relationship. Thats when I read about all this "PUA" shit. Realized that I was a piece of shit as person and made some serious changes to myself.
Now, not to toot my own horn, I'm a pretty bad ass mother fucker. I've got an amazing girlfriend and we've been living together for 3 years now. Our relationship makes other people jealous to say the least.
Do you think is normal that an adult guy can't or don't want to have at least 6 months - 1 year relationship?
What is normal? Maybe some people don't want relationships and just like having empty sex??? What the fuck is it to you what other people do?
I'll be honest, love hurts. I love my girlfriend so much that if something ever happened between me and her, I don't know if I'd ever let myself fall in love again. I'd most likely start pimping girls. I can pretty much convince them to do anything I want anyways. At that point, I may as well start to profit off of them.
Relationship filled with real love(not manipulations)
with sex with love(not just sex), with working on your near or far future together etc?
Like I said, I love my girlfriend. I'd marry the girl to be real with you. She's wifey material. We're working on buying a house together right now. But here's the difference between me and other guys... If shit goes south between me and her, my life doesn't crash and burn in front of my face. Instead, a new chapter of it starts.
I've developed a different frame of mind towards women in my life than most men. Thats why I'll never have problems with women in my life again. I think differently than you do.
Why I think this whole PUA thing sucks:
1. You're making damage to your self by deprive love from yourself
2. You're making same damage to people who learn this stuff from you
3. You're making damage to girls that you use just for sex and to "improve your game"
4. You're making damage to boyfriends of these girls because maybe some of those girls was in serious and great relationship and now you use your tricks so she cheat on her boyfriend with you
None of thats true but we've already established that you're alot dumber than you look.
The only good thing in all this for you professional PUAs is that you get money without working.
I challenge you to start coaching people yourself and then tell me it isn't "work." You have no idea what it's like listening to peoples problems all day then trying to sleep with out pills. It's hard to not make other people's problems become your own when you know them on a personal level so you, sir or ma'am, can suck a fat dick.