Is it normal to go on 4 dates with a girl that seems uncomfortable with any sort of affection? I've tried kissing her about three times (once on first and second date, and twice last night) and she seems very uncomfortable. Last night she came over to watch a movie, and she would sit on the far side of the couch away from me, and feel like she won't get "close" to me. Eventually I worked my way closer and we made out for a minute but she didn't really seem into it...Tried to hold her hand, again didn't seem into it so I totally backed off her for the rest of the night. End of the night when I tried giving her a kiss she turned her cheek (big fail)...she does seem very shy so maybe that's the issue...she's treating me no more than like a friend though-shows me no interest in person.
She's back to texting me today, but this is kind of blowing my mind a bit. We are both in our late 20s. Am I overthinking it? Should I bring it up with her? Is it even worth a 5th date?
How are you doing with other women? Basically, I'm asking is do you have other women in your life that is willing to return affection and not just into this one because she's the one willing to spend time with you?