no approaches....bad weather, bad mood....fuck....I hate myself.
Ok. Thats my word: I don`t go home till I do 3 approaches next time. I CAN do it. I did it!
Changes are innevitable - I`m becoming better each day, and the more I resist, the stronger
my new self strikes back and I change even faster.
So here are some of my limiting beliefs I worked bymyself yesterday:
Old belief: If I approach - I`ll be blown away
New beliefs: I never no the reaction I`m going to get, so I`d better check out.
I approach not to get good reaction, but to find out if the person or a group are as good as I see them
Old: It is not good to approach infront of people, everyone see me trying to pick up a girl, and it is sucks
New: It is actually ok to approach people and talk to them, there is nothing criminal
If I don`t want to be seen approaching - I`d better approach in a crowd of people
No one cares what you are doing - no one will even see you approaching.
Old: if I approach a lot - everybody in a city will know me
new- thats crap: it this case the most popular person in the sity should be the sailsman in a grosery store. He is seen by HUNDREEDS of people per day....do you remember at least one???
Old: If I don`t have mood - I don`t approach
New: It is a training - it is not only about having good mood.
One of the best way to pump the emotions is to meet new people. So if I`m not in a mood
I am to do EXTRA approaches.