Noticed some people have posts here as kind of a 'blog' for posting regular content on their gaming so decided to start one myself =)

So....

My name is Phil -- Been reading up on "Game" for a number of years now mainly out of curiosity but have never actually applied them properly due to lack of any real motivation.

At the age of 26 I have decided that this is an area of my life that I have probably neglected for too long. I've spent a good majority of my time on other goals + pursuits that held my attention, but have mainly been a social recluse finding refuge in FACEBOOK and porn!

I feel that now is the time in my prime years to go out and meet girls ... Have had a couple of girlfriends in my time but nothing serious or nothing that I would consider I had control over -- more they just came onto me and seemed relatively easy so thought "hey why not"... my last two major LOVE interests essentially broke my heart but in hindsight I feel that this was due to my inability to attract first and be seen as anything other than a friend.

I am more confident than ever that there is a "system" to pulling WOMEN. I hope through reading Game Material + Browsing For Tips on this forum I can create a set of routines that I can go out into the field with.

Thanks for setting up this community,
"Deputy Van Halen"
aka Phil

Watch this space =)

"Opener For Sarging Alone In A Bar?"


Hey, was out sarging with a friend the other night but halfway through the night he bumped into some girl he was kind of trying to get with -- long story short he asked if it would be sweet to leave with her. I said that was OK =)

Anyway, basically ended up using this as an indirect opener for approaching group sets...something along the lines of...

Me: Hey, quick question...is this really the best place to go out on a Friday Night?

Them: They usually responded with "Probably not" or something of that nature. It doesn't really matter

Me: Ok, the reason I am asking is because I was was with a friend earlier and he bumped into this girl he likes...long story short hes left now, haha, so trying to find a place to go =)

They would usually be quite receptive to this going "Oh my god? are you serious? what a horrible friend!"

But I would counteract this by attempting to convey that this didn't phase me -- "Oh, not really. I am the type of guy that can usually strike up conversations with randomers anyway + I know quite a lot of people so would usually end up bumping into someone I know in the end. Its not a big deal" I also noticed that asking for where a good place to go on a Friday Night is actually a good false-time constraint as it gives the impression you are not staying and looking for somewhere else to go...

Anyway.... From this I would just end up having a conversation with them for about 15 / 20 or so minutes. Admittedly I didn't number close, but that was primarily because I am still a rookie and just about getting over approach anxiety, but this appeared to be something that atleast worked as an opener and getting them INTERESTED IN chatting to me... Although this was a legitimate thing that happened to me it could possibly work as an opener for going out to a club alone -- because it atleast makes you look like you were there with someone at some point and not just a weird loner =)

What do you guys think?? Do you think this type of opener Displays Low Value or High Value....?

Hi Deputy, I'm new to this so take my advice with a grain of salt.
I think you're demonstrating both. You are showing you're able to meet new people by yourself, which can be nerve wracking. Definitely a DHV. At the same time, you are showing that you hang out with people who think it's ok to ditch you. :p Definitely a DLV.

Hey man, thats a fair point. I think I did almost perhaps play the victim card a little bit... Maybe next time I could turn it round and say that he didn't want to leave but I insisted -- infact it was my idea that he left, lol?

Actually, that's a great idea. That way you end up looking like the good friend, and you also look like you're comfortable being alone and meeting new people.

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