 Posted: Wed Jan 02, 2008 2:51 am Post subject: |
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DW, i dont agree with Val.
Gameing girls at work, that you directly work with is one thing. This of course isnt impossible just risky.
However from the sounds of it if this girl works for the same company she works in a completely different area, so the limited interaction you have at work shouldnt be an issue.
As for girls with boyfriends, think of it this way. Does she have a ring on her finger? Would you stay with someone if something better came along?
Give her that something better and her b/f will disappear. She is purposly not mentioning him because it could hurt the connection she has with you. I say purposely because if you have ever dated someone for even a few months its hard not to mention them when talking about yourself to others.
Id say keep it up, you have a very good C&F frame going. If you have a group of friends you go out with on a regualr basis and are comfortable with them, make plans with them to go out some night, then invite her along. Make it obvious that your going with some people and she is invited to meet up with you there.
Another perspective can be this, I have 3 girls in my life at this point. Girls i have little or no intrest in, girls who are friends and i may or may not be intrested in, and girls im definatly intrested in.
Regardless of what category i put them in i game them all. Now the gameing is done a little differently, but all in all im still gameing them. For girls i have no intrest in, i experiment with them, try new routines, and even go over board with C&F and negs to see reactions.
For girls who are friends, i game them in much the same way as girls i dont like, except i do not push things too far with them as i dont want to lose them. I COULD do without them, but id rather not.
Now with these first 2 groups i generally deflate any kind of attraction they garner for me by makeing LJBF type statements with them. Also by not amping up kino to a more sensual vipe and not showing/displaying any sexual intrest in them, i reduce/eliminate the chances of them expecting me to "make a move".
For the 3rd group, girls who i like and want to be involved with, I use tried and true material and frames. I seldom use new stuff here unless im confident that it worked well while i "tested" it. This group gets gamed in a wholistic sense in that i dunt pull any punches, i amp kino, attraction, comfort etc. I carry over my attitude with the other groups of girls here and "act" like i dont care.
So in short, decide where you want this women in your life. If you are intrested in her being a friend, or more...then game and pull the trigger, amp things up.
If your not intrested in this, or if circumstances really dont permit you to move on with her (if you think you could lose your job), then just use her as practise... |
