I met HB7 a couple of weeks ago and she's been to my place a couple of times.

The first time she came to my place, we watched a movie, during the movie she told me the movie was boring. As I scrolled through my movies, I came across some few porns and we both agreed to watch.

I escalated a few times during the porn. She would allow me to touch her but she said she doesn't like to kiss, so no kissing. We later moved from my sitting room to my bedroom where we both laid in bed. I escalated a few times in the bedroom but she had LMR on. I didn't force her and I would usually roll off and get busy on my phone each time she resisted.

She opened one of my bedside drawer and found a little bag full of condoms. She opened the bag, counted the condoms and asked me what I was using the condoms for, but I ignored her question in a playful manner.

I couldn't F-close her that day. She texted me later that night that she really needed me inside of her, which I didn't make any comment.

I haven't seen her for a few days now even though we've chatted a couple of times on SPAM. She sent me a short porn clip on watsapp and asked me how big I was and if I could fcuk like that? The only answer I gave her was "lol...you'd have to find out"?

I am new to the game and I am willing to improve. I want to F-close next she's at my place. Any tips and advise as to what to do when she's at my place?

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Without sounding rapey

You need to persist and try again and again. You missed your opportunity. Only stop when she says 'STOP' and physically prevents you.

Ignore the verbal obstacles and just be like "yeah I should stop" and continue to kiss her neck till she is squirming with horny-ness

You could of get laid, I'm pretty certain I would of fucked her in that situation, I guarantee it

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It sounds like you have it in the bag next time around if you ask me.

Some women have this " I just don't want it to be the first night" thing that you can easily get around with either physical or verbal persistence. You have to be confident enough to engage her in conversation about the topic and topics related to sex. You sound like you want to have sex but are also a bit uncomfortable(like most) with it by the way you've responded to her sexual remarks.

It sounds like you became boyish "ignoring and being playful" during the condom comment and " lol..you'll have to find out" during the question on your length. Not saying you had to tell her, but there are more escalating ways you could've went about that. The more reserves you have about sex the more reserves a woman will have about sex while in your presence.

We've all been there so I'm not coming down on you, but its just something that needs to be gotten over. She isn't afraid to ask you about the condoms/your size but you're afraid to respond by matching and/or outdoing her intensity? This is why you're waiting until day 2. You're just trying to secretly slip on in there. Go head first man.. Kick the front door down, its a lot quicker than trying to pick the lock.

You'll fuck next time around without a doubt. I don't think you need help. Its normal "she resisted the first name and gave in the second night" stuff.

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Thanks for the great advise. I will try again. I realized how much I pay attention to the verbal obstacles. I will work on that.

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I've learned a lot in this post and I know I will have it in the bag next time. Thanks man! What better way could I have handled her sexual remarks?

I totally agree about "The more reserves you have about sex the more reserves a woman will have about sex while in your presence", because I have seen women whom I thought were reserved about sex at first, later getting all freaky and wild in the bed room. What steps can I take to get over my sex reserves?

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"Adapt what is useful, reject what is useless, and add what is specifically your own." - Bruce Lee