Bobby bouche wrote:
Eddie Fews wrote:
What makes you think you fixed your commitment issues?
How do you know you've fixed something unless you've been able to text it out to see if things have changed?
You want the girl because you don't currently have her, and some how you think that upon getting her you're still going to want her and upkeep this whole " i wanna be a good guy" image? Every guy that has ever gotten back with an old girl and promised to change has thought the exact same thing. I'm not saying its impossible, but this longing for her is not what you think it is.
You're probably not in the best situation and she's a source of familiarity and comfort for you and so you want her. I get that. But why else? And what have you done so far to work toward improving yourself, your situation, and/or potentially getting a new girl of higher value?
FYI.. 6 months is not an awful lot of time for a girl to wait for you. You have feel like you're worth more than that.
I know exactly what you mean but i really feel like this girl is indeed who i want.the longer ive known her the more i like what i see.ive grown to adore her personality and i know that i have no problem commiting to her.i feel like ive been playing it the right way because she still contacts me alot but she still wont hint at wanting to be together. And i wonder if the other dude still has her on his finger since hes so mean to her...ive been really complacent but idk if thats enough.
She contacts you a lot because she doesn't have much else going for herself either. You think that if she met me and i was interested in her that she would still be contacting you? You're giving her attention, you're making her feel wanted, and she doesn't have to do a damn thing for it. Of course she's going to take that from you if you're offering it and no cost.
And her "personality".. Don't make me laugh.. Everyones "cool" once you get to know them..
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