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My friend told me about a girl (6/10) that you can get her very easily. So i start talking her today and i playing with her and sometimes giving her value and sometimes nagging her and she is also enjoying everything when i was chatting with her on FB but some times she kept me waiting. Some times she replied me very late and i told her that i don't like it but she did it to me like 5-6 times and in the end i said to her that "gud nite i can't wait again and again, i hate that" and then she replied to me that "ok fine gud nite bye".

Plzz help me if i don't know what to do next.

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Plzz help me if i don't know what to do next.

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Stop Being Needy

You are bombarding her with attention, fucking stop that shit!

If you find yourself wanting to call, text, fb, or e-mail her a whole lot more than she contacts you, you are being a needy pussy!

Learn how to find the source of your neediness and gain the confidence to tone it down.

Hit the fucking brakes Bro, your doing 90 and heading for the wall! It's only been one day!

Right now you might think you want to spend all of your time and effort on her, but you're setting yourself up to be let down, very quickly!

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PostPosted: Tue Dec 02, 2014 6:51 pm 
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Bhai i feel the same, you are right.

so if she text me tomorrow should i talk to her ?? can you plzz explain this needy thing and how to control it!!

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Bhai i feel the same, you are right.

so if she text me tomorrow should i talk to her ?? can you plzz explain this needy thing and how to control it!!
You're toast. But if she does text you, try to respond in a attractive way.

You clearly have zero experience and you should at least study pick up rather than just post and hope for the best.

There is plenty of info out there for free or on this very forum for mindsets, techniques, what to say etc

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PostPosted: Tue Dec 02, 2014 7:14 pm 
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Bhai i feel the same, you are right.

so if she text me tomorrow should i talk to her ?? can you plzz explain this needy thing and how to control it!!
You're toast. But if she does text you, try to respond in a attractive way.

You clearly have zero experience and you should at least study pick up rather than just post and hope for the best.

There is plenty of info out there for free or on this very forum for mindsets, techniques, what to say etc
plzz can you post some URLS here or PM me.

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http://lmgtfy.com/?q=How+to+pick+up+girls%3F

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Hi ImPhilosopher,

I've read this post, and several of your previous posts (and I've commented on many of them).

Every one of your questions is very, very, very, very, very basic. It's textbook pickup for beginners. I would honestly suggest you look at available material (here, in the posts of others, on other sites, youtube, anywhere) and wrap your mind around the BASICS before you go any further at all.

Use Google. Use the search function on this site. We cannot hold your hand every step of the way.

There's no way you'll ever be able to hold a girl's interest with the level of neediness you're putting off right now, and the general inexperience and lack of knowledge you're clearly showing.

This isn't a dig on you, and I'm not trying to be offensive at all... I'd love to see you get better at this - but you need to crawl before you can walk...


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My friend told me about a girl (6/10) that you can get her very easily.
Never, ever, ever, approach a girl with this mindset. It's the easiest way on earth to get blown out or to mess your self up.

Along with that, you haven't given enough detail, but it's very evident that you are acting too needy. Cut it out. This girl doesn't owe you anything and she will get back to you when she wants.


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My friend told me about a girl (6/10) that you can get her very easily.
Never, ever, ever, approach a girl with this mindset. It's the easiest way on earth to get blown out or to mess your self up.

Along with that, you haven't given enough detail, but it's very evident that you are acting too needy. Cut it out. This girl doesn't owe you anything and she will get back to you when she wants.

But i think i have to be leader or else everything will be boring.

Today i text her and she replied that she is going for bath and its been like 5 hours no msg. Don't know what to do help me!!

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Don't know what to do help me!!
You should start by reading the replies in this thread...


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she replied that she is going for bath and its been like 5 hours no msg. Don't know what to do help me!!
And you didn't go for a naked picture? WTF?

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Can somebody really tell me what to do or just keep telling me "stop be needy."

Now i'm not being needy!!

so guide me further........

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I think you should learn to be good with women in general and also to love yourself

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Can somebody really tell me what to do or just keep telling me "stop be needy."

Now i'm not being needy!!

so guide me further........

I give up. You're literally not reading a word anyone is writing here.


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Can somebody really tell me what to do or just keep telling me "stop be needy."

Now i'm not being needy!!

so guide me further........
Philosophize this Chummily Fuckstick, if you continue with this attitude, like we should get this girl to jump off facebook and suck your dick FOR YOU, it just doesn't work that way.

Example; When a girl tells you she is taking off her clothes, it is your opportunity/DUTY to flirt HARDER!

Expressing sexual interest is okay.

Calling/texting/messaging every two minutes about nothing isn't.

Every time you feel the need to be needy, ask yourself this one question: What would a confident MAN do in this situation?

You said yourself at the beginning of this thread she's only a six, so Diversify. When we’re convinced we’re not getting “enough” from our efforts and we’re starving for more, it’s natural to become clingy. So stop starving. Feed your need, for conversation, companionship, sex, whatever. From more than one source. Sign up for a class, join a small group, PURSUE OTHER WOMEN. Men who have well rounded lives and are getting emotional and physical needs met through other women, people, and activities, are much less likely to feel needy or become too clingy.

PEBBLE gave you rock solid advice, start at the beginning, not in the middle.

I've also provided you with material.

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Can somebody really tell me what to do
Ask specific questions, give examples of actual conversations.

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