How do I ask her out without revealing my affection for her?
WTF??? Seriously, WTF??? I want you to logically think about this. Do you think a girl wants to go out with a guy that's not interested in them?
As for your master plan...get that out of your head. There is no master plan. When you guys are sitting there touching legs, or whatever, get her to go with you somewhere else.
You are right about the first part of course. However, I am shoving interest in many ways - its hard not to
But from my experience, shoving too much and therefore making yourself available can kill the attraction.
Masterplan is how do I get her to go somewhere else with me...smoothly
Khatib, sorry man, I don't get your reply/advice. I don't want to get rid of her, I want to make her mine. BTW shes not flirting to attract customers, seems like its just her nature.