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So in bars/clubs, I'm supposed to be entertaining them with conversation?
Btw, last time I was at a bar, I sat silent and looked around. Basically no one is doing this successfully. Most guys don't approach, the ones that do usually don't get very far and it seems like the girls are just there to have a good time with their girlfriends.
I was out a few nights back, and it was like the first time in like a YEAR where I noticed a guy make an approach on some girls who were seated. I go out a fair bit, have been for years. I'm always observant and and it's amazing how infrequently you notice guys approach girls. He didn't get anywhere with the girls, but he tried, God bless him!
He was Canadian. The girls were 3 gorgeous Polish girls.
I'm in the UK. I imagine guys approach much more often in the US! I think the whole pickup culture must be a different world out there due to everyone being so much more social/friendly towards strangers.
My friends who get laid get it ALL through tinder (and occasional work hookups) for what it's worth
Where do you live?