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Hired Gun Barely Talks

Wed Sep 06, 2017 12:47 am

So I just quit my job and hit up Hooter's everyday trying to hook up with one of the girls there.

One of the two single girls has just always been very difficult to talk to.

I'm decently experienced, I may not be able to lay every girl out there like a MPUA, but I've had my successes and almost NEVER get blown out on a cold approach. Most cold approaches I do will at least result in a 5 to 10 minute conversation.

This girl doesn't seem bothered by presence. Nor does she seem shy or insecure, which I could understand her being quiet for. She's not busy, as I go in there right when it opens and no other customers are there. All the other girls seem happy to talk to me.

She actually seems quite confident but is IMPOSSIBLE to talk to. She has been that way since the first time I was there.

I'm sure I can't get this girl at this point, but just wondering if people have run into this before so I can be prepared the next time.

Re: Hired Gun Barely Talks

Wed Sep 06, 2017 1:33 pm

chi31fan35 wrote:So I just quit my job and hit up Hooter's everyday trying to hook up with one of the girls there.

One of the two single girls has just always been very difficult to talk to.

I'm decently experienced, I may not be able to lay every girl out there like a MPUA, but I've had my successes and almost NEVER get blown out on a cold approach. Most cold approaches I do will at least result in a 5 to 10 minute conversation.

This girl doesn't seem bothered by presence. Nor does she seem shy or insecure, which I could understand her being quiet for. She's not busy, as I go in there right when it opens and no other customers are there. All the other girls seem happy to talk to me.

She actually seems quite confident but is IMPOSSIBLE to talk to. She has been that way since the first time I was there.

I'm sure I can't get this girl at this point, but just wondering if people have run into this before so I can be prepared the next time.


A. She's not attracted. It happens. No matter how buff, handsome, or slick you are, she simply could have zero attraction to you.

B. She's attached. Some girls (even hooter waitresses) are loyal to the men they are currently with. Even if that guy seems to be a total turd and treats her like crap.

C. She's not even attracted to men. Hooters after all is just a job. Not a lifestyle. (I know seems like a waste of fine ass right? But I have known plenty of flaming white hot lesbians.

Re: Hired Gun Barely Talks

Wed Sep 06, 2017 6:17 pm

I actually have been going to this place called the titled kilt (hooters deriviative) here and went to hooters not to long ago.

You have to realize that these girls get hit on so much ... I think they get really numb to it. The last time I was there, there were at least 3 "regulars" that all called the one hot bartender I want by name! Everyone at the bar was a dude and constantly trying to get her attention. The last waitress I had at hooters was attractive, but had one of the most dull personalities I've seen in a while. Every exchange between her and I was very bland.

My point is, you can't blame yourself for this. It probably has nothing to do with you. Your only hope in these places is to frequent it long enough to tell if a girl is really interested in you. I would get that before trying to ask one out... It's hard to distinguish between her "working" and actual interest.

Re: Hired Gun Barely Talks

Wed Sep 06, 2017 9:39 pm

and B: You are unemployed. Go get a job and lay off the girls. Focus on yourself. jesus

Re: Hired Gun Barely Talks

Wed Sep 06, 2017 9:44 pm

chi31fan35 wrote:So I just quit my job and hit up Hooter's everyday trying to hook up with one of the girls there.


Every day is no good. Look busier than that, or bring your work into Hooters.


She actually seems quite confident but is IMPOSSIBLE to talk to.


She's not attracted. Happens to the best of them.

Hooters is a special case. They see a lot of idiots in there. The women are objectified, and are used to the lowest common denominator. Don't become part of the "soup".

Re: Hired Gun Barely Talks

Thu Sep 07, 2017 1:26 am

Yeah, I go there to do my work/writing samples so while everyone else is just hanging out doing nothing I look (and am) extremely busy.

Just locked down my first client yesterday actually, which I had applied to when I was in Hooter's.

Re: Hired Gun Barely Talks

Thu Sep 07, 2017 1:31 am

chi31fan35 wrote:Yeah, I go there to do my work/writing samples so while everyone else is just hanging out doing nothing I look (and am) extremely busy.


Nice.

Re: Hired Gun Barely Talks

Thu Sep 07, 2017 1:41 am

Thanks for the insights everyone.

Re: Hired Gun Barely Talks

Thu Sep 07, 2017 3:07 am

A couple things:

1. How long have you been a regular there?

2. Have you gone the direct route with the hired gun and just asked her out?


I always ask hired guns out the first night I see them. They complain to me about "stare guys" (guys who do nothing but stare at them instead of having the balls to ask them out).

Re: Hired Gun Barely Talks

Tue Sep 12, 2017 5:09 pm

Asked her out the second time I talked to her.

Trying to find the other single girls in here but most have bfs.

Re: Hired Gun Barely Talks

Tue Sep 12, 2017 5:59 pm

chi31fan35 wrote:Asked her out the second time I talked to her.

Trying to find the other single girls in here but most have bfs.


Expand your horizons.
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