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 Posted: Sat Apr 12, 2008 11:03 am Post subject: Messed up big time, need help ! |
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I am (was) meeting this girl, she called up to my house last night and we hung out etc... this girl is stunning, but she constantly goes on about how fat she feels.
So last night she was at it again and lifted up her top to show me her so called fat stomach, i told her there wasnt a bit of fat on it but she kept saying there was so messing i said "no its just your big hips" the girl doesnt have big hips by the way...
Anway she got all mad and stormed out of my house and went home, i was shocked more than anything else..
So i text her about 20 min later saying "you know i didnt mean it like the way it sounded, no need to be getting all thick"
She replied "yeah it doesnt matter, look this isnt working out so we should just leave it, bye" (she always says "bye" in text messages when she is thick)
I replied "yeah i think thats for the best, later"
What should i do now ?? |
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Mad Hatter
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| well, that was a shit test. My advice, and something not too many people understand is that there are millions of other girls out there. Get another, get a hundred more... trying to constantly constantly work our asses off to get ones that we fucked up on just stresses you out and shows a little DLV, remember, if you are a pua, you can get any girl and you dont need just her... |
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Stamper
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Bucks,
Wow! Quite the exchange...seems like this girl might have some serious self esteem/self image issues going on there...shes obviously self conscious about her waistline...is she really psycho about it? If its extreme, may be a sign for you to eject... |
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She has me totally confused to be honest.
She is one of these girls whos mood can change at the blink of an eye if you say the wrong thing, its happened before but usually she would only stay mad for a short time and then she would be back to normal.
At first i thought she might have gotten so mad to use as an excuse to stop seeing me, but then why would she agree to always come into my house and initiate contact every day.
I know i should forget about her and move onto the next girl but there is something about her that i am really attracted to..
Any advice to what i should do now ? I have not contacted her since that night.. |
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Anyone ??
I am still meeting other women but i hate to think about one getting away... |
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Poisson
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| bucks wrote: | Anyone ??
I am still meeting other women but i hate to think about one getting away... |
They will "get away", just move on. You can't win 'em all... in fact, favourite quote:
In the game of life it's a good idea to have a few early losses, which relieves you of the pressure of trying to maintain an undefeated season. (Bill Vaughan)
Trust me, if you really fuck some up the next ones won't matter so much  And to be honest it doesn't sound like you screwed this one up too badly. I dunno, if a girl fishes for compliments or just has general self esteem things like that I'll either ignore it and talk about something else or brush it aside with "don't be silly" or similar. The latter isn't always good though, it can sound a little bit patronising, depending on tone of voice, context, the exact words you use.
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Killians
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| She sounds like she has some major issues. If she blows up after something like that then imagine how much worse it can get. I would just move on. |
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Mugen1
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| sounds like ya really like this gurl and dat aint a bad thing I wud folow the other sugestions if she crazy pull out but bear in mind u gna come across gurls dat are crazier than her hehe so if u wna stick in there make it a learning experience. also to make her feel better talk to her bou parts of her body dat u like removing her attention from the parts she don't like. |
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| Mugen1 wrote: | | sounds like ya really like this gurl |
Yeah thats the problem, i do !! If i had no feelings for her i would have just said "physco" anf forgotten about her.
My head is telling me to walk away, plenty more fish out there to be frying but my gut is telling me a different thing. |
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| I find that when you are making busting on her looks its important to smile while doing it so that she knows your joking. sometimes the voice tonality isnt enough to get the joke across and women will flip the hell out over that kinda stuff. I learned it the hard way. Ive had the same type of thing happen to me several times. I learned my lesson and it hasnt happened since. |
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