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PostPosted: Fri Mar 16, 2012 3:41 pm 
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Okay I am currently seeing 5 girls in my university.. I am basically having dates with all of them at least once a week. How do I keep it simple? Before they start it wanting to be serious. I have been doing this for 2 weeks now. And I have noticed that 2 of them are starting to act like a girlfriendly type which is what I want to avoid. I also do not want to be branded a douche within the first 2 months of my student life.


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PostPosted: Fri Mar 16, 2012 4:17 pm 
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It is extremely difficult specially if you are having sex with them, after 3 - 5 times you fuck them will get even worst, what you can do is dropping the level of attention, or neglect the ones you are not that interested in, but it could backfire since they will chase you more... It could be very stressful, drama and annoying, so what i recommend out of the 5 keep around the one that is the best, pick a second one as back up(probably the 2 you mention) and the other 3 start getting rid of them, and then get more, and keep rotating and rotating... the sooner you get rid of a rotation the easier, then you keep adding and substracting, eventually you will get bored of it.. and you will end up with a main, a booty call, and you will game girls that you add and subtract to your rotation(the skills way)

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PostPosted: Fri Mar 16, 2012 5:45 pm 
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Juggle what you can handle, dump what you cant.

5 seems a bit much for one man to handle, do they know about each other? If that is the case, who cares. If not, then you are heading in a dangerous direction, they will, a university is a small venue when it comes to people sleeping with each other.

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PostPosted: Fri Mar 16, 2012 5:50 pm 
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Nope they don't know about one another. And sometimes I have dates with some of them on campus. Sooner or later one is going to walk by and see me... Which will be interesting I guess. At least one of them is just looking for fwb so I'll keep her. Will try and figure out the rest, any example of how I should end it?*edit* End with my reputation in tact. I can handle the player rep but there is a difference between a player and a flat out douche.Breakups were never my strong point.


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