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PlayerVsGame88 New to PUA Forum
Joined: 16 Feb 2008 Posts: 15
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Posted: Sat Feb 23, 2008 3:50 pm Post subject: Mall Approach Diss |
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| So i was sarging at the mall yesterday, and when i approach a 2 set with can i try a magic trick on you opener, they said they were scared and basically walked away from me. I just can't understand why they did that. I didn't look scary or anything; i was wearing a polo and jeans. |
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The Flip New to PUA Forum
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Posted: Sat Feb 23, 2008 6:03 pm Post subject: |
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I don't consider "Hey, can I try a magic trick?" as a good opener. I know I would be kinda creeped out if someone said that to me while I was shopping.
Try to use some other opener next time, and use that magic trick after. |
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chadbaxter Member of PUA Forum
Joined: 16 Sep 2007 Posts: 127
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Posted: Sat Feb 23, 2008 8:59 pm Post subject: |
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| you are at the mall... ask them for shopping advices (sister's bday etc).. then say "hey you guys wanna see a magic trick" |
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ajberry PUA Forum Enthusiast
Joined: 24 Mar 2007 Posts: 47
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Posted: Sun Feb 24, 2008 12:00 am Post subject: |
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Yep, open with something innocent.
One of my favourites is that (if I have bought some clothes) is, "Do you think my bum will look big in these?".
This really breaks the tension and gets them comfortable with you (by discussing a topic they are likely to like talking about)
Imagine if some guy came up to you when walking down the street and said "Lemme show you something", you'd think what a weirdo. That is the vibe you're giving off. Get the set comfortable around you first, then do your trick. |
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Mclaren2012 New to PUA Forum
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Posted: Tue Feb 26, 2008 7:00 am Post subject: |
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| put yourself in their position, your a girl.. lets say your a HB 8, sry.. but lets get realistic, some guy comes to you and a friend and says," can i show you a magic trick" How would you react.. your at a mall, come up with something new.. and maybe show them your magi trick later.. |
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