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shades22
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 Posted: Tue Feb 05, 2008 5:11 am Post subject: Making second contact |
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Ok,, just need to give details so you can advice me on where to go.
i pulled some great game on a girl that is 8/10 and got her number and went back to her dorm for the night. Before we left the party, her friends took me aside and said "don't hurt her" and "if you break her heart, i break your face" etc. I am not much of a guy when it comes to having sex on the first meeting, and she wasn't either I guess. So we hung around her dorm talking for a bit and then i made my move and kissed her. It was just a quick one, and left her wanting more, and then just continued talking like nothing happened. After another 20 min of talking, I sat down and pulled her down with me and we kissed for a bit, then just went to bed and feel asleep after a little more stuff once we got in bed. After we woke up, i went out to lunch with her and her friends (the ones the threatened me) and worked a little game with them to win them over to get their approval. I kissed my girl goodbye from there and went back to my place. I texted her a message, cause i had her number and she did not have mine, just a little one that did not require an answer. She wrote me on AIM saying she got my text and such and that was about it. So today, i called her and tried the "I have to ask ya about something" voice mail message that i read about on this site to get her to call me back and just get a joke with what i had to talk to her about. Well anyways, she responded with a text saying she was busy with school work and whats up. i just wrote that i had to ask her about something, and asked her to go to lunch tomorrow. she responded with that she couldn't and wanted to know what i wanted to ask. i wanted to leave her curious so i just wrote "takes too long to text, not that important" and that is it up to this point. I think i might have come on too strong by making contact too soon. i just like her a lot and did not want to think i was a guy looking for some quick ass. so my questions are: what do i do now, or did i already ruin it. i would really appreciate some help here. I am good at getting numbers and hanging out in person but not too good when it comes to arranging these dates without coming off to strong. I would like to keep haning out with this girl. |
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jdogg
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| In my opinion it sounds kind of like Buyers remorse... maybe you didnt build up enough comfort with her and now she doesnt want anything to do with you. |
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PrettyBoy41
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| ya im not gunna lie, it really sounded like you wanted to ask her out, and in my opinion, that would be extremely prudent. hang out more, get to know eachother more before you make a commitment. and another thing, for future referense, i highly discourage messages like that, they are very dramatic and intimidating, and a little confrontational. your making it out to be too big of a deal. you should just wait till the next time you hang out with the person, rather then putting the pressure onto your next meeting. |
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BlueRed
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| Posted: Tue Feb 05, 2008 8:34 am Post subject: |
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| Don't fear her, just do it, ask her out! |
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