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shane358 New to PUA Forum
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Posted: Tue Jan 01, 2008 9:30 pm Post subject: MAKING CONTACT |
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alright guys! i went out in town quite recently and met an attractive girl and we've exchanged numbers and email and have been chatting none stop and it seems to have gone abit stail and i get the feeling that she's not as interested as she once was. i just want to know how to get some sort of reaction in order to get things back on track??
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Rye Lee Moderator My post count is my POWER LEVEL!!!
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| You need to keep moving forward, or things will get stale and she will lose attraction. You need to have in person contact and use kino to escalate. |
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shane358 New to PUA Forum
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Posted: Tue Jan 01, 2008 10:40 pm Post subject: |
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| cheers dude! just texted her now saying when u letting me take you on a date!! you think thats ok?? |
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Trivial Dedicated Member
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Posted: Tue Jan 01, 2008 10:52 pm Post subject: |
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| shane358 wrote: | | cheers dude! just texted her now saying when u letting me take you on a date!! you think thats ok?? |
its okay... better than chatting! |
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Posted: Tue Jan 01, 2008 11:14 pm Post subject: |
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| shane358 wrote: | | cheers dude! just texted her now saying when u letting me take you on a date!! you think thats ok?? |
wouldve been better to say "im taking you out on ______ , make sure u are free"
wouldve been even better to CALL her and set up a date, not text. text is such a pussy move. texting is only good for flirting |
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shane358 New to PUA Forum
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Posted: Tue Jan 01, 2008 11:22 pm Post subject: |
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just want to say if i did put that and i got a negative reply how should i react??
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Rye Lee Moderator My post count is my POWER LEVEL!!!
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Posted: Tue Jan 01, 2008 11:22 pm Post subject: |
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| Never ask. Be confident and know that they will answer yes, or don't ask until you can make them answer yes. It's kinda like being a lawyer; a lawyer never asks a question that they don't know the answer to. |
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shane358 New to PUA Forum
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Posted: Tue Jan 01, 2008 11:33 pm Post subject: |
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| cheers dude |
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TrojanMan88 PUA Forum Zealot
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Posted: Wed Jan 02, 2008 1:18 am Post subject: |
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| I would run some attraction themed game such as kino escalation and push pull until you think attraction is strong enough for you.. |
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Posted: Wed Jan 02, 2008 4:23 am Post subject: Re: MAKING CONTACT |
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| shane358 wrote: | alright guys! i went out in town quite recently and met an attractive girl and we've exchanged numbers and email and have been chatting none stop and it seems to have gone abit stail and i get the feeling that she's not as interested as she once was. i just want to know how to get some sort of reaction in order to get things back on track??
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If you bored the girl out of a relationship then learn what went "wrong" and improve yourself for the the other girls you plan to get get to know. |
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shane358 New to PUA Forum
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Posted: Thu Jan 03, 2008 11:11 am Post subject: |
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hey again! all went well guys! got a bit cocky and confident and met that girl out last night went really well and now the girl keeps texting! as was said got keep moving forward or trhings get stale!
cheers once again |
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