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Mr.Cellophane
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 Posted: Tue Feb 19, 2008 4:41 am Post subject: Making A Move On G/F (Need Advice) |
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I have been dating this girl for a little more than a month now. We were freinds for a while before we started dating so things have been moving kind of slow between us. Sometimes she feels like a freind, and sometimes she feels like my girl, if you know what I mean.
I think the problem is that we need to get more comfortable with eachother and buil a little more attraction. If things don't progress then I can see this relationship ending soon, and I don't want that to happen.
I have been trying to use some 'kino" techniques to build attraction but I have no idea what I'm doing. My freinds tell me "stop being a pussy and just make a move." But I know I need to build attraction before I just go for the kiss. On top of that, I wouldn't even know how to make a move. The only time we kiss right now is when she has to leave.
As you can see, I don't have much experience with girls. I have only had one G/F before this one, and she made all the moves on me. So I need some advice.
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-been dating girl for about a month
-freinds before we started dating
-things are moving slow
-I need to build attraction
-I don't know what I'm doing when it comes to kino
-I have no idea how to make a move to kiss her
-not much experience with girls |
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stevenadrien
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| Posted: Tue Feb 19, 2008 4:50 am Post subject: |
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| Work on inner game. |
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Mr.Cellophane
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| stevenadrien wrote: | | Work on inner game. |
As in confidence ?
I have alot of confidence in myself. I'm usually the most alpha guy in the group. I think it's more of my lack of experience. If I knew what to do, as far as kino, flirting, and making a move for the kiss, I don't think I would have a problem. But maybe your right ? I'm sure you know more about this than me.
It doesn't help much that it still feels kind of awkward because we were freinds before. |
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stevenadrien
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| Posted: Tue Feb 19, 2008 5:03 am Post subject: |
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PU has to become natural man. Just like venture out. Flirt, kino, and try to notice what gets attention and what doesn't.
We can't really tell you exactly what to do, because we aren't in your situation. It just has to come you. |
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Mr.Cellophane
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| stevenadrien wrote: | PU has to become natural man. Just like venture out. Flirt, kino, and try to notice what gets attention and what doesn't.
We can't really tell you exactly what to do, because we aren't in your situation. It just has to come you. |
I know what you mean. So I should just try to flirt, kino, and if she's liking it then just go for the kiss ? |
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stevenadrien
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