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Anbesolrox
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 Posted: Mon Nov 12, 2007 5:12 am Post subject: Maintaining Interest |
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I picked up this HB9 and it's been going well so far. My problem is that next week I'll be traveling for business, and the week after she'll be traveling as well.
How can I maintain her interest over this 2 week period? Any ideas? Or, if I'm going to run phone game, how should I do that without seeming needy or extremely available? Your advice is much appreciated!
Also, Hi! I'm new here and not very versed on the whole PUA world. If there's anything I should read please let me know. It's late, and I thought I'd just post this quick question and see what kind of response it gets. |
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Anbesolrox
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| Posted: Tue Nov 13, 2007 2:28 am Post subject: |
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| Ugh, no replies/opinions/advice? |
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masterPUA
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| Posted: Tue Nov 13, 2007 4:22 am Post subject: |
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| i think you should always answer the phone when she calls (not on the first ring of course... eager eddy...) or miss it on purpose and call back 5-10 mins later. but make sure you end the convo not her. by saying got work to do or something. you'll do fine. but in phone game, there is no real way to escalate your relationship (besides phone sex). so make sure you dont slip into the LJBF zone. and as for texts, i wouldnt respond until around an hour or two later. |
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PrettyBoy41
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| Posted: Tue Nov 13, 2007 4:52 am Post subject: |
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| maybe see if you can get her email before you leave. that way when shes gone you can ask her about her trip. i wouldn't email her while your gone tho. |
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Anbesolrox
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| Posted: Tue Nov 13, 2007 5:26 am Post subject: |
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Yeah, I didn't hear from anyone in time, so I decided to wing it. Talked to her on the phone, started the conversation with "So what are you doing in December?". She laughs, and then asks me why she has to wait until December to see me. I explain my business trip to NYC, and she talks some about her trip to NYC for Thanksgiving. We bullshit a little, and I tease her about us not being "internet friends". She immediately shoots me an email and adds me on facebook or myspace, or whatever ridiculousness that I don't usually keep up with. We talk some more, blah blah, flirt and have fun. Then I tell her I have to go study for a professional exam, and end the conversation. Oh yeah, somehow in all this she also decided to email me a picture of herself.
Anyways, I think the call went pretty well, and I'm not going to contact her again until after my biz trip. I think what I'll do (I'm a former New Yorker), is write up a kind of itinerary of places that I want her to visit in the city. All of which will be very cool, and yet be places where she's unlikely to meet some other guy  . Ideally, I'll be on her mind, even though I'm not there with her, as she visits the spots.
Anyway, any opinions on my game plan? I feel like I worked the phone pretty well this time. |
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PrettyBoy41
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| Posted: Tue Nov 13, 2007 5:40 am Post subject: |
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make her like a treasure map. hide shit all over the city, places no one will ever think to look for something, so no one'll take it, and leave her little things and notes and stuff. then find a place, like a post office or something that you can leave it at, so she doesnt see it till she gets there. dont answer any calls or emails while shes gone, but plan to hang out within days of her getting back so she'll be all over you when she gets back. thats somethin i would do if i thought there might be some romantic interest. have fun with that.
good luck,
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Anbesolrox
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| Posted: Wed Nov 14, 2007 4:15 am Post subject: |
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| PrettyBoy, that's a kinda cool idea, but I don't have that kind of time, since I'll be there on business. Thanks for the insight though. Also, anything I might hide, the homeless WILL find. Anyone else have any opinion on my plan? |
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