LOOKS ?

th3_plan · Posted: Wed Mar 28, 2007 5:11 am Post subject: LOOKS ?

Im new to this, suffering with fear, but im curious, im not like a brad pitt guy or anything, but do looks really matter for Chicks? Or is it mostly who u are in the inside then the outisde

Thanks Guys

Duke23 · Posted: Wed Mar 28, 2007 3:55 pm Post subject:

Dude its an adding game and looks is just one of the catagories you just need to add on to some of the other catagories like personality girls like guys who have lots of personality it almost makes up for the fact rather than a not so interesting brad pitt type

its like david d says "how many hot hollywood models do you see with average looking guys?"

th3_plan · Posted: Wed Mar 28, 2007 6:27 pm Post subject: reoply

yeah but what kind of personality traits, shit lol, im not one of those people who know what to say, and keep convo going, i need to trick her into just talking about her shit, and me saying , "wow" or "definitley" or "wow how could he/she do that"

OneManWonder · Posted: Wed Mar 28, 2007 6:34 pm Post subject:

I explain to my friends that arnt so great looking that girls really don't like looks as much as they think. The key is to be clean, have a nice shirt, nice jeans, cut your hard once every two weeks, shave often.

th3_plan · Posted: Wed Mar 28, 2007 6:37 pm Post subject:

u so sure Charge? Most girls i know, its about wow that guy is hot! Nothing else i here, seems to me maybe there just horny and itching Wink

OneManWonder · Posted: Wed Mar 28, 2007 7:50 pm Post subject:

u so sure Charge? Most girls i know, its about wow that guy is hot! Nothing else i here, seems to me maybe there just horny and itching Wink

Yes girls are like that. They see a james bond fella and say woowww look at him and would most likley make out with him on the spot. What I meant though is if you were not born with the saucy lips, the wrinkle eye, and the perfect bone structure you are NOT shit out of luck.

My whole perspective is that everyone can clean themselves up to look average. I had a friend once who wore baggy camo pants, same old blue shirt (wasnt even blue anymore), he had bad acne also. This kid was a mess. I traveled to boston with him and while shopping I picked him out an outfit, didnt even ask him to try them on I TOLD HIM. I said you really don't have to buy these, you also dont have to feel bad about trying on expensive clothes. When he walked out of the dressing room his whole family almost fainted, even me, you could see his confidence in just cleaning up his look. For the next few months he really took charge of his self appearence. The amazing part is he had two dates that month, I've known him since he was 8 years old and this was the first girls I've heard that were interested in him.

Sadly to say though I saw him a week ago and he looked like a mess. Don't know what happened there but w/e.

Nevertheless If you are clean cut, have a classic with something modern look than mostly every girl will give you a chance.

th3_plan · Posted: Wed Mar 28, 2007 8:25 pm Post subject:

charge u a girl?

OneManWonder · Posted: Wed Mar 28, 2007 10:53 pm Post subject:

osiris · Posted: Wed Apr 04, 2007 4:32 pm Post subject:

looks are an edge in your game, if you don't have em you'll just need to find another way to make yourself attractive. But like charge said, at least make it look like you care about your appearance; and do whatever you can do that you feel would make you more attractive.

Impact · Posted: Thu Apr 05, 2007 4:34 pm Post subject:

Yeh looks defiantly matter.

If your good looking, tall, strong, well dressed of course girls will dig it. With some girls you might not even have to say much, from the word go they’d be into you. But you can accomplish the same result being a not so good looking guy, just well groomed, fashion, body language, smart, sharp, short, bald, scrawny, maybe even have scars?. It all really depends on your ability to create genuine attraction, and to convey high social status value.

~ Impact

Hot Chocolate · Posted: Fri May 04, 2007 9:38 am Post subject: Not True

Hi All

I don't even think you need to be well groomed, I was out once with a class I was teaching and there was a tramp out and he had just sat down and was talking to some HB7's he had the whole group craking up (he didn't smell but he wasn't well groomed his beard was touching his chest) and whilst he wasn't there to pick women up the HB's were buying him drinks all nite. I don't believe it's true about being well groomed.

I have taken a few guys out on a few workshops wearing there usually clothing (and believe me some of them look a right mess) once they are up to speed they get the numbers and day twos -I then work on their clothing issue once they're confidence is up, purely for the fact that anything that's negative I.e. I'm not the best looking, It's my clothes that's the problem, I'm not tall enough etc these are all self limiting beliefs and once you smash those beliefs you can then work on the rest and on top of that they will have the motivation to do so.

Hot Chocolate

Nerd Avenger · Posted: Tue May 22, 2007 10:34 am Post subject:

looks can help.

key is confidence. girls can smell it like sharks smell blood.

eithre that be real rich!!!!!

MattyK · Posted: Thu May 24, 2007 6:43 am Post subject:

Looks can help but they dont mean the world. If you are good looking good, if not then dont worry cos its the inner game that makes it work. Try and look ur best.

Guest · Posted: Wed Jun 20, 2007 12:26 pm Post subject:

Pono · Posted: Wed Jun 20, 2007 5:49 pm Post subject:

well i dont no i used to be a total jerk personality wise but then i found the game and now im a much better person

but the point im getting at is evebn though i was a total jerk women still wanted to get to know me (i was voted hottest guy in school for my sophmore junioor and senior year) so looks do matter but u have to be confident above all

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