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tapanojum
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 Posted: Tue Feb 05, 2008 11:59 pm Post subject: Looking too serious while walking alone |
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Hey guys, I have a weird problem. I noticed that when I go out to sarge alone at like the mall or something, I feel like I have a depressed or too serious facial expression. This in turn makes me feel shitty.
Sometimes I bring energy back into myself by beatboxing softly as I like to do, but I would only imagine it looks weird from a distance, seeing lips randomly move around.
Any ideas on how to seem fun/energetic when just walking alone by yourself like through a mall? I would think that constantly smiling while walking alone through a mall would make me look retarded.
"Whats that jackass smiling about?"
Any ideas, or is this just my own false perception?
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PrettyBoy41
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| Posted: Wed Feb 06, 2008 12:57 am Post subject: |
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| listen to music when you walk, or just consciencely put a jollier face on. |
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Solomon II
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| Posted: Wed Feb 06, 2008 1:26 am Post subject: |
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I know what you mean, people tell me I always look like I'm going to fight someone... doesn't get in the way of sarging though, it's all about your inner game. Just don't give EC to girls with a really serious look on your face and you'll be fine!  |
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tapanojum
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| Posted: Wed Feb 06, 2008 1:44 am Post subject: |
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| Dalziel wrote: | | I know what you mean, people tell me I always look like I'm going to fight someone... doesn't get in the way of sarging though, it's all about your inner game. Just don't give EC to girls with a really serious look on your face and you'll be fine! |
Exactly, haha ussually I have a calm look but I have noticed sometimes I just feel so damn serious. I actually gave EC to an about HB9.5ish and didn't break, until she gave a nervous smile and broke EC. Maybe she thought I was about to kick her ass? lol |
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Solomon II
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| Posted: Wed Feb 06, 2008 2:17 am Post subject: |
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| tapanojum wrote: | | Exactly, haha ussually I have a calm look but I have noticed sometimes I just feel so damn serious. I actually gave EC to an about HB9.5ish and didn't break, until she gave a nervous smile and broke EC. Maybe she thought I was about to kick her ass? lol |
Haha, more likely she thought you knew something bad about her. They all have secrets, you know. |
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Mr. Fantastic
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Smirk. Like you've got an awesome secret and you only wanna tell it to the right person. Music can be good, except it kind of shuts the world out. And sometimes you wind up dancing despite yourself.  |
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Mister_GQ
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| i think dancing a little bit is ok, and yea music is good, and just think to yourself, damn im good looking lol or something that makes u smirk like fantastic said. just think cocky and you should exude it |
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rain3131
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| Posted: Wed Feb 13, 2008 11:00 pm Post subject: me |
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ill try to describe what i kinda do. i noticed all of these behaviors in the alphas at my school. while sometimes im just serious and dont care, ive always got that really relaxed easy going walk.
keep your head up, do NOT raise the chin too high, or it just looks ridiculous. dont always keep your head perfectly straight all the time.
i keep my head just slightly up and sometimes just a little bit to the left/right. dont stare at exactly whats right in front of you. it makes you look stern and uptight. look around and observe things/ people.
walk tall, let the shoulders hang just slightly and your arms swing loosely. not too much tho, just like youve got a lil pep in your step and youre at ease.
personally, i smile a lot when im with someone, but when im alone, idk why but i usually have my mouth a little open with just the slightest smirk. but its not at all like those guys who just walk around with a slacked jaw, all expressionless.
couple other things:
-NEVER fidget with your hands, keep them at your sides
-i NEVER put my hands in my pockets.
-dont touch your face or your head, it just looks like a self-conscious mannerism.
just make yourself look approachable and easy to talk to. like you could start a convo with anybody. always take your time with what youre doing. but make sure youre walking with a purpose, not just wandering around.
my 2 cents.. |
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k-loc
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| May sound cheesy but I usually pretend that I'm on my phone talking to someone with an cheery facial expression or that I'm reading a text message that has me in a great mood. It works. |
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