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PostPosted: Wed Jul 30, 2014 10:31 am 
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Hi guys!

Not sure I am on the right board, if not - please move the topic.

I know that this isn`t about internet game but I am currently chatting with the girl. All I am going to post what has happened just a few hours ago. I would like to hear oppinions. So here is the story:

Day 0. That`s the day we broke up. We had a fight and I was really beta with no inner game. I one moment I realized that for the past hour I was telling her how much I love her and I am getting nothing.
So I told myself "Lol, man, you must be in control and you are actually acting like a little b*tch".
I said to her "This is the end, I brake you off. Bye".

Day 1
I arranged a meeting with a HB wich I have friendzoned before. While walking to the place, I accidently met my ex.
Ex: Hiiiiii! What are you doing?
Me: I`ve got a meeting with a girl.

She tried to tell me something, but I wasn`t interested. Had a small talk with her friends. She was just sitting to see how all of them stop so they can listen to me.

Day 2
Only two days passed and she chats to me:
Ex: Hi! (Initiates contact)
Me: ?
Ex: My little brother is asking about you. (Just a dumb reason, so she can chat with me)
Me: So what is he doing?
Ex: He asked about you and I decided to see how are you doing?
Me: Didn`t you tell him we aren`t toghether anymore?
Ex: I told we were friends?
Me: LOL, I lied about that.
Ex: You told me so many times we will stay friends if something happens?
Me: I`ve got enough girl-friends.
Ex: So we want talk anymore?
Me: Are you always like this?
Ex: You know me.
Ex: I wanted to stay friends, so we can talk.
Me: LOL, thats boring. Friends go out and have fun.
Ex: We will go out.
Me: But no more you hitting on me.
Ex: I don`t hit on my friends.
Me: Even if you try, I won`t give you.
Ex: What hitting are you talkin about?
Me: You know, poking and friendly hugs :mrgreen: Did you told something else?
Ex: Never mind.
Me: Well that rude.
Ex: If you wanna hang out - write or call me.

Well that`s pretty cool. I don`t want to be in her frame about friendzone and she wants to hang out.

An hour later she intitiates contact again:
Ex: Maybe you are right.
Me (hours later, I was sure it will be a shit test and decided not to fall for it): I just rolled a blunt here: (photo on the top of a building with perfect night view, really nice DHV)
Ex: Why did you smoke weed?
Me: Just having a cool time.
Ex: I know what it is like.
Me: LOL, you know everything.
Ex: No.
Me: Dork. :mrgreen:
Ex: This sounds sweet :oops:
Ex: C`mon get a rest.
Me: You serious. Night just came, time to rock a bar.
Ex: Here in (City`s name) is so boring.
Me: Pretty fun for me.
Ex: Stupid (City`s name).
Me: Go to sleep.
Ex: I`ve got other stuff to do.
Me: Yeah, you should make your bed first.
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So she started talking to me about a boy who chat`s with her. I told her "LOL, hope he is fun, because my battery goes down".
Later when she understood that I am still out and partying, she told me: "Hope there`s someone to take care for you". Obviously she is sad about not being next to me.

Late in the night she wrote me: "Write to me, when you get home".

Day 3

That`s today.
I didn`t wrote her when i got home, so she initiated contact. Again I had stuff to do so I just wrote her 2-3 lines.

Well if she initiates contact again I will ask her out and write down about the day.

Nice day to evryone on the board!


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PostPosted: Wed Jul 30, 2014 2:06 pm 
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You haven't covered a few things:

-How long had you been together?
-Do you want her back?
-What's your preferred outcome here?

Like, you sound quite young... going back and forth with little jabs via text. If you want an adult relationship, treat each other like adults and discuss the problem.

If you want to drop her and stay broken up, then do just that. There's no point in texting her and comforting her... You can tell she's still very attached to you and wants you around. You're filling the void left by you with you...


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PostPosted: Wed Jul 30, 2014 6:50 pm 
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We've been together for 6 months and we know each other from 1.5 years.

And I want her bac. Not desperately. But I do like her. She said that I hurt her too often.

What do you suggest? Ask her out directly?


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PostPosted: Wed Jul 30, 2014 7:13 pm 
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Yep, drop the games. Stop texting and talk to her.


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PostPosted: Wed Jul 30, 2014 7:27 pm 
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Thanks for your advice!

Do you have any other suggestions. What should I do when we meet.


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PostPosted: Wed Jul 30, 2014 8:00 pm 
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I can't tell you how to interact with your girlfriend, buddy... You'd know better than me.

If it was me I'd do 2 things:

1) Don't fucking break up with a girl if you don't mean it. You just end up looking retarded, much like you do right now...

2) Act like nothing happened. Just get together with her and pretend not to see or hear the giant elephant in the room... see if that works. If she insists on discussing it, then talk about it - and say you were both emotional and you both said things you wish you didn't say...


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PostPosted: Wed Jul 30, 2014 8:17 pm 
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OK!

Will post after.


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PostPosted: Thu Jul 31, 2014 11:17 am 
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I called her:

Me: Hey there! I want to take you to a place with me.
Her: Today?
Me: Nope. Sunday. Lets meet at XXX at XX:XX
Her: Where are we going?
Me: I can't tell you.
Her: Tell me, or we aren't going anywhere.
Me: I won't tell you but if you decide to come - call me. I am going out now, bye!

If she doesn't call/text me than I won't bother anymore.


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PostPosted: Thu Jul 31, 2014 3:43 pm 
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She keeps finding reasons to chat with me. Stuff like "Do you still have Viber".

She told me she wants to go out with me, but she won`t do it unless I tell her where we will be going.


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