Let's Maintain Eye Contact!

tk750 · Posted: Fri Apr 04, 2008 10:33 pm Post subject: Let's Maintain Eye Contact!

But how? Lol, I'm kidding. I think a lot of mistakes I make is not maintaining eye contact. When I have a conversation, I can't help but look away after let's say 10-15 seconds. It just gets uncomfortable at times. But hey, I'm a nub, so I need some advice.

Should I just always maintain eye control and just look at her while talking until she looks away? Will that be construed as creepy?

Ka · Posted: Fri Apr 04, 2008 10:44 pm Post subject: Re: Let's Maintain Eye Contact!

undefined · Posted: Fri Apr 04, 2008 11:32 pm Post subject:

Have Eye Contact 60-90% of the time, if she's looking at you, you should do the same, when your talking you can look around so you don't just look like a statue, be alive and energetic, smile often, and yeah don't look down or up, Blink as many times as you want, some people(like myself) make the mistake of keeping eye contact without blinking, it causes your eyes to water and reden, lol if your not carefull you might feel like your crying and make you so much more uncomefortable..

StrawberryFields · Posted: Sat Apr 05, 2008 4:05 pm Post subject:

Don't always look at her, especially if your using the mystery method. You want to seem uninterested, unless you've already transitioned to being interested. You can almost pretend to be pretending to listen lol if that made any sense.

Hengman · Posted: Sat Apr 05, 2008 4:16 pm Post subject: Re: Let's Maintain Eye Contact!

tk750 · Posted: Sun Apr 06, 2008 4:50 am Post subject:

Lol how do u disarm amogs?

I have a funny story to tell actually. I was sitting in spanish class sleeping on my arm which was extended. My hand hanged off the desk and right behind the semi-AMOGs chair. Now this person is an AFC when it comes to women, but tries to pose the AMOG to other men because he's big, tall, fat, ugly, stupid, and has not a trace of charm. Now I must remind everyone that this man is a stupid f*ck. In the winter, with his sweatshirt on, he would make it his ritual and duty to open the window to the farthest it could go. I found it slightly cold, so I politely ask him if he could shut it or take off his sweatshirt. Without exaggeration, he shuts it perhaps half an inch at most.

So that day when I chose to sleep, he told me to move my desk back. Another annoying ritual of his. So I politely move back without a word. Now as I was sleeping, the teacher handed out this ridiculous crossword puzzle where we tried to name every word we knew that started with a p for example. And even worse was that people were actually trying even though grades do not matter to this point because we're all seniors and going to college. So as I was slumbering peacefully, the AMOG chose to have two girls to work with him. Now of course, he's a total AFC to them, just talking about fluff and trying to be interested. Shit, his best flirting line is "Oh, [girls name], you're gonna fail that test. Oh you always do that blah blah blah" By the way, theres an HB8 to the right of me whom he usually talks to. As I was sleeping, he slammed his chair into my hand and I leaped back in agony and fury. Looking at him with a confused and painful daze, I gaped for an explanation: an expression of sorrow, penance, or even some look of repent. Instead he said, well I told you to move back. That f@kcer, I thought to myself. Thats just adding insult to injury. I tell him hes a big, fat ugly faggot. He turns and says I should hang myself. I smile and say, "Fine but that still won't change the fact that you're ugly." So that's my little rant. As for how I could have handled that better, who knows.

So enlighten me.

VAtrackstar · Posted: Sun Apr 06, 2008 5:12 am Post subject:

Rye Lee · Posted: Sun Apr 06, 2008 6:43 am Post subject: Re: Let's Maintain Eye Contact!

tk750 · Posted: Sun Apr 06, 2008 7:09 am Post subject:

True, I read somewhere that in interrogation techniques, the technique is not completely reliable.

But anyhow, I find that sometimes when I can maintain eye contact while she's speaking, it gets intense. You can feel the emotions in your chest rising and you know the girl can too. She begins to blush, her pupils dilate and you know there's this burning animal desire to just jump off the chair, over the desk and grab her.

But I think what's best is when she then breaks eye contact with you. Essentially you just eye fucked. And now she feels insecure, emotionally unstable and its an easy way to go in for the kill. Have any of you guys had this type of experience?

Also, how far does making eye contact to one another until you become creepy. What if theres a social reason why you can't initiate conversation, like a teacher is talking and you can't say anything. Or you're with your parents. Or some dumb shit like that.

And would this be a good approach? If you're relatively close to her, you make positive eye contact and she shows IOI. And you just grin, and say "You're cute. What's your name?" Or if you know her "Hey, I haven't noticed before (a neg), but you're actually pretty cute. How's it going?"

In essence the approach is rather direct and she may respect it as a DHV as she finds it to be full of confidence. Of course, in order to do this successfully one needs a lot of positive energy. So I suppose unless you're timid, you shouldn't pull it off as you'll look like a creep.

What do you guys think?

Hengman · Posted: Sun Apr 06, 2008 4:02 pm Post subject: Re: Let's Maintain Eye Contact!

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