Calvin Davids
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 Posted: Tue Oct 02, 2007 5:54 pm Post subject: LETS HELP NOT BITCH. |
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Ok, we're all here for one reason; we want to improve
So instead of all the bitching about newbies and people looking for quick fix solutions on here, lets help.
I came on here as an AFC, simply only having read The Game. However, despite my HUGE lack of field experience, I told you my experiences, what worked for me. And it is THIS which is what we should all do.
No matter how small or how silly it may seem, if it worked then lets help each other and tell!
For instance, I just sent a text to a girl a few minutes ago who I've only met once at a party about two weeks ago.
Me: So I guess the real question is, if you could have anything in the world, what would it be?
HB8: What?! Where on earth did that come from? It would pros be something really superficial like lots of clothes hehe or james bond lol. X
Me: Ha, daniel craig? with or without the blue wimming boxers? just seeing whether you're a simple one to please.xx
HB8: Haha do like a bit of daniel, or pearce b rosnan hehe. I dunno with superficial things im relatively easy to please but with other things i think im quite fussy.X
Me:I think the thing i'd want most is the worlds second best spooning partner ahhhhh yea.x
HB8: Haha why not the best spooning partner?! Oh i spose its coz youre the best are you?x
Me: I knew we had a connection! keep it real x
HB8: Ha its coz we both have sexytime thoughts in our heads! Lol. seriously like everything i think of or say is dirty, a sexual innuendo or has sexual connotations! X
By no means am I a PUA. But my god have I improved. I'm confident, I have no fear of being shot down or dodgy silences in conversation. I now have opportunities of meeting new women where as before, I simply wouldn't even consider it. I no longer care what people think when I wear certain things, the way I act is me, and they can either love it or get lost.
This is what we all want. All I want to do is improve, more and more. Yet I want to use my own material, to be a creator, not a user. For that way, I feel an even greater sense of achievement.
So instead of using all of the material here, "leaching" as it were, i'm going to "seed". To help us all to make the world a happier place.
In turn, I ask all of you to also seed, to share your knowledge, whether it be a magic trick, a one minute routine, a kino tactic, a damn funny joke, a weird opener, or simply where to get a really kl pair of sunglasses.
LETS HAVE IT
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Mech
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| Posted: Tue Oct 02, 2007 6:43 pm Post subject: |
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I'm pretty sure most of the bitching is about people who don't SEARCH before asking a very basic question.
The more experienced PUAs here should be spending their time answering new questions, not reading a "what's the best opener" thread or a "Mystery destroyed the PUA community" post by someone who joined in september of 2007.
New PUAs are welcome, people who want answers spoon fed to them will not be recieved well. |
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Trivial
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| Posted: Tue Oct 02, 2007 6:51 pm Post subject: |
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| Mech wrote: | I'm pretty sure most of the bitching is about people who don't SEARCH before asking a very basic question.
The more experienced PUAs here should be spending their time answering new questions, not reading a "what's the best opener" thread or a "Mystery destroyed the PUA community" post by someone who joined in september of 2007.
New PUAs are welcome, people who want answers spoon fed to them will not be recieved well. |
I like yours better, it has more precise wording. lol |
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