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Ice-cold
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 Posted: Mon Jan 07, 2008 3:41 am Post subject: Lets be friends... |
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Im looking to expand my social circle and hang out with women that I don't currently hang out with (putting gaming them aside for the moment however things change  )
I have some emails and numbers of girls im not in touch with but I want to become their friends like for example, one of my friend's girlfriend, who I sometimes talk to, is pretty hot and has a lot of friends, so I figure she must have hot friends. Like I said I talk to her but never hang out with her alone.
Most of these women are friends on my facebook, so I would need to message them.
What are some suggestions for getting to hang out with these facebook girls?
Im stuck guys,
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JSmooth
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| Posted: Mon Jan 07, 2008 4:57 pm Post subject: |
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| Invite them to hang out much like you would on the phone. Message them, Hey I'm going to the mall on Saturday to get xxxx you want to tag along? |
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PrettyBoy41
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| Posted: Mon Jan 07, 2008 8:22 pm Post subject: |
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| ya or just call them or email them sayin you want to catch up and suggest going out to get coffee or somethin |
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elkid27
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If you want to get across the point you just wanna be friendly with these girls invite them places in groups. Emphasis on groups. Get people to get pizza and a movie, like above go to the mall, get people together and go to a bar.
By getting them to hang out with a group of friends you are showing you are friendly, and that you have a lot of friends meaning you are socially acceptable and it would be wise for them to be friends with you. |
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BlakMagik
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| Posted: Tue Jan 08, 2008 8:59 am Post subject: |
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yeah i personally think malls are awesome for this. your group can just walk around different stores trying on cool, weird, interesting shit that you would'nt normally consider [e.g. peacocking gear, and its good to have a female perspective when ur gettin this kinda stuff] and best of all you use them as pivots as u game any decent sets u happen to come across.. the fact that ur in a group with females is social proof as well as a DHV by preselection and similarly u DHV to ur own group by showing them how sociable you are..
lol as Papa would say: its win-win!  |
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Ice-cold
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| Posted: Tue Jan 08, 2008 10:09 pm Post subject: |
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I was thinking about the mall, however if I do this with every HB I will go broke lol.
The group thing is a good idea, but its conditional, it would need to be with 1 of my friends (I met most of these girls through him).
I like the catching up, but I don't want to come off to much like im trying to date her, because for some of these girls there is little attraction or their not single. |
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