As someone whose only been with 3 women, I'm just curious. How do you guys bed so many women without getting committed to any of them? I ask this because I wanna bed a shitload of beautiful women in my lifetime (to make up for all the gorgeous girls I could have had in my life, but fucked up by having ZERO game), but women always tend to get clingy after sex and I'm not really the type to lead girls on or cheat on them. Is that something I should just try to get over?
It's been my experience that women aren't clingy at all. I live in NYC. Women want to have fun while they're young before they settle down into a committed relationship. You said that you don't lead them on... by not leading them on, it's actually easier to get rid of them because they have no false expectations. I don't make grandiose promises of relationships and a future together with an HB. I'm exude more of the Carpe Diem image which women pick up on.
However, when I meet a woman of quality, I want to keep her around. I like the security of consistent sex with a high quality HB. There was a time in my life when I was dating 5 women at once, all HB7 and above. It lasted about four months. One was married. The other had a boyfriend. The other three were single and "dating me." I would see the married one once or twice a week, always during the daytime. The one with a boyfriend I'd see once or twice a week, though usually evenings. The other three were single so I'd rotate them each night. One lived in the suburbs so she always had to be out of the city by 7:00pm or else she wouldn't get home until late. So when she would leave I could invite one of the other two over. It was an awesome experience though a little difficult to manage at times. I even managed to sleep with all 5 of them in a 24 hour period!
I hate one night stands for the simple reason that I'm horny the next day! I prefer one month stands. Also, it usually takes a few times for the woman to get comfortable with the guy to really let herself go and have amazing sex. This isn't always true, but I've found that for a majority of the women I've slept with, the sex gets really good after the third time. Also, it may take me a few times to figure out what they're like in bed, how they like it and what excites them. Once I figure this out, then I can really enjoy myself better because I feel more in control and competent. Not all girls are the same.
The few that are clingy are easy enough to get rid of by simple not returning their phone calls. THey'll get the picture really quick because most women are so proud that they won't humiliate themselves by several unreturned phone calls. I've only had a two that have gone psycho on me.
As for me getting committed to them, it happens some times in which case I continue sleeping with them while pursuing other women. I'm not one to be monogamous. Often times, if you're completely open with women, they won't mind that you have other lovers. Most of them, however, don't want to know about the other women: willful ignorance. Also, I know plenty of women who have multiple sexual partners.
Further, I've been in three LTRs. I wasn't faithful for any of them because I was simply too young and because I'm a natural. When you have natural game, it's really difficult not to meet women because you're naturally outgoing. Sure, if I lived in Nowherevill, Montana, then I'm sure it'd be a lot easier to be monogomous. However, I'm overwhelmed with beautiful women here in NYC. Really, sometimes it's just too much!
Also, you said that your not one to cheat on them. Well, how is it cheating if you're just FBs? You have to control the frame from the very begining. You have to exude confidence and control as well as adventure and excitement. She has to know, without you saying it, that this is going to be a fling or affair. HBs like the idea of flings! You're going to be passionate lovers.
The nice guys (AFCs) are the type of guys women marry when they're in their thirties. Bad boys are the guys that HBs fuck while in their twenties. A lot of Hbs will have threesomes, group sex, BDSM and all sorts of crazy wild sex with bad boys, however, they will extend that same pleasure to their AFC husband once they settle down because they're worried about him seeing the light. The nice guy husband has probably always been an AFC so he never gets to experience the wild side of his own wife. I feel sorry for dudes like that also because AFCs are usually the type to be cheated on by their wives... with a PUA! I know this because I've been that PUA who has given an HB the excitement, pleasure and passion that her AFC husband won't. But he pays the bills so she stays with him. I will never pay the bills for a woman.