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PostPosted: Mon Aug 15, 2011 7:11 pm 
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this is a must read for any pua.


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Great post. I agree that this is topic is unfortunately rarely discussed and should be quite more frequently.

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OK, let me weigh in on this. Condoms are smart. Condoms are the only way men can control both pregnancy and STI transmission.

Unfortunately, for me they remove so much sexual pleasure that I'd rather masturbate than have sex with a real woman with a condom on. So my practice and experience.

Dealing with STI - as part of working up, I try to get a sense of how risky a woman is. This is always a judgment call, since women will usually downplay their experience, but you can generally get her to come clean by being open and nonjudgmental. If her recent history is a steady boyfriend or two you're likely OK (but remember, you don't know what THEY were up to). A year of celibacy is pretty solid go-for-it ground. If she doesn't give good answers, I just limit us to touching, de-escalate and let her cool down without hurting her ego. Often for our first time I'll not have sex, and after she's had a few orgasms and really wants to fuck I'll say "Well, we have to have the awkward birth control talk." Depending on her answer (which is far more than just what she says) I'll either go with the STI check policy and get points for my maturity and restraint, or if I'm confident take the risk and fuck her and get points for - well, for fucking her.

The larger issue is birth control, and you want to be on really solid ground here. I had one close call, and I also got caught. My live-in girlfriend get pregnant on purpose over my stated objections. She lied about her birth control for a period of 2 years. My fine young man is now my joy and pride but it was certainly very hard going for a long time. No regrets, but neither was it my chosen path. I was lucky too, in that she was reasonable. It COULD have been disastrous, because once a woman has your baby, she is in the drivers seat legally, socially, financially. I know a woman with kids from three men, who gets 6 figures in support annually, and the last part of that income stream will last until the youngest (now 7) is 25. She's also cashed in three houses, and yes, this was planned and deliberate on her part from the first kiss to the last support cheque.

Suffice to say, find out where she is on birth control, find out where she is on abortion, and satisfy yourself that she's too committed to school/career/whatever right now to have time for children. If a woman is ready for babies and you've made yourself the alpha-male of her dreams, you had better be routinely checking up on her birth control and make sure she knows that a baby will end the relationship.


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i got genital wart before... im doing okey now.. its been three years now... my dick is doing okey but hurt my personal PUA belief, coz i dont want to be a disease spread.. i want to be a SHERMANATOR a.k.a u will get pregnant... she was my teacher's daughter and my beloved high school discipline teacher .. i fucked her coz her mom scold me, she teased me three times, hahaha


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If ur going to be a PUA u should have condems all the time some girls have there own condemns at there place. You have to be ready for every situation and protect yourself if 1 in 4 girl has an STD and you getting numbers every day you increase the odds ur gonna get something the more girls your messing around with compared to just being sexually active with one girl you know well.


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Since you cannot place a condom on your tongue or mouth, I'm puzzled by the bold pussy eaters around here who only screen chicks based on indicators of consent to have sex. One wrong move and you have gonorrhea or herpes of the mouth. That STD could easily spread to the eyes and BOOM, you're blind.

I have a very strict screening strategy (propinquity is part of it) on the chicks I f-close since I'm a pussy eater. I have a strong bias in favor of shy and/or conservative girls who usually play hard to get versus the flirt. Any signs of promiscuity and I drop sarging the HB like a hot potato. A good selection strategy plus condoms are a must.

Imagine fingering an HB's pussy and then putting on a condom. You think, you're safe right?

WRONG. When you rub your eyes with the fingers you used on her pussy... :twisted:

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As much as I hate sex with a condom. I always use them.. Unless I have a gf I know quite well, and know she's on the pill, and was not on the pill when we met. (single and on the pill means they fuck a lot of random guys).

Honestly, I'm a very selfish person and do not want children. So, I'm always careful and never have sex w/o protection..


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I hate condoms too, but refuse not to use them anymore. I used to be stupid and have only caught HPV which work themselves out in 2 years, and 80% of women will have at one point in their life. For me it was I could not feel shit, so I did some research and found this condom made in Japan, Crown. They sell them on Amazon for 100 for 15 bucks or something like that. They are by far the thinnest I have found, and I never had one break. Is it ideal, no, but if you are smart like me, you will realize you can never trust a woman.


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For me the worst part about having to use a condom is the sex sucks. Not the feeling, but having to hold back.... I dated one girl that was pretty wild in bed... We both really had to hold back...

Not that I'm huge, but rough sex will rip them things pretty damn easily. It has happened to a friend of mine.. His two year old now calls him dad. :-/


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For me the worst part about having to use a condom is the sex sucks. Not the feeling, but having to hold back.... I dated one girl that was pretty wild in bed... We both really had to hold back...

Not that I'm huge, but rough sex will rip them things pretty damn easily. It has happened to a friend of mine.. His two year old now calls him dad. :-/





Wouldnt lube help with that?


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Fucked a chick without condom yesterday cause I was really drunk. Woke up, hated myself for it, and now im affraid I got an STD... You guys get me even more terrified.

Also, Hellhound, your comment makes me want to never have sex anymore :(


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Very happy to see this being addressed on the forums. Personally my parents preached condoms to me from a very young age. It has always been something that stuck with me.

I would like to point out for all who don't know. Most clinics, at least all the ones I have ever been too, offer free STI testing at least a couple days a week. I have been going to my local clinic every three months since highschool, regardless of whether or not I had been sexual active the previous months. It is a good habit to get into and I recommend every do it. Plus now that they no longer have to shove a rod up your shaft, you have no reason not to go. God I hated that fucking test. Anyways, get tested often guys. Doesn't matter how good a PUA you are if you cock is turning black and about to fall off.


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Anyone who has problems with condoms and sensitivity should get some Viagra and take it about half an hour before take off.

I can guarantee that the lack of sensation will no longer be a cause for concern.

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I would venture theory (3) this is a topic nobody likes to talk about...


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