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PostPosted: Sat Nov 15, 2014 9:43 pm 
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So finally she was at my place and it went all cool, until her phone rang while we were half naked.

Her best friend called her with some... "deep problems"... and then she told me the dreaded words "I gotta go" with a bad expression on her face...

I didn't got angry but honestly I felt and still feel very lame about it. And I feel all my energy and passion was just drown out of me in a split of a second. Actually I feel like somebody hit me in the balls.

So whats the option: A) call her soon to ask her if its all OK with her friend B) Don't call her for 2-3 days and then just date invite her casual C) call her, tease her and invite her for a movie at my place again

Idk if you had been in similar situation, but I've never been and don't know what is best to do in such. I guess to play it as nothing happened would be OK.

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PostPosted: Mon Nov 17, 2014 2:46 pm 
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What was your response?

And either way..

Just let her contact you; because she will. She's the one that walked out. Let her walk back in.

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PostPosted: Mon Nov 17, 2014 3:56 pm 
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Eddie F wrote:
What was your response?

And either way..

Just let her contact you; because she will. She's the one that walked out. Let her walk back in.


My response was: well I tried to arouse her right away so she doesn't leave, but eventually she left.

I didn't got angry, my response was: what happened happened, no big deal.

We finished the night with the words "lets catch up" this week. Which is so ambiguent.

Once she told me she that I wasn't calling her enough and that she was calling me most of the time. (I guess I shouldn't take that too serious).

I was thinking to call end of the week and take the lead in my hands again, but seems like this is NOT the best thing to do.

But see whats more funny - I just saw she texted me on FB with something totally ambiguity: "well what?"

I take it as a sign that she wants to see me. So i'm gonna be straight forward - "come at my place X day, you need to help me clean the dishes"

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PostPosted: Mon Nov 17, 2014 5:06 pm 
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You're overig thinking.

Whats going to happen if you jut call her tonight? Is the girl going to stop liking you "just" because you called her tonight? I think thats silly.

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PostPosted: Wed Nov 19, 2014 5:12 pm 
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Eddie F wrote:
You're overig thinking.

Whats going to happen if you jut call her tonight? Is the girl going to stop liking you "just" because you called her tonight? I think thats silly.


Yea thats right. I called her but she was with a friend we chatted for a minute but she told me "lets call you later"
I was: OK

She didn't called, perhaps she forgot or it was too late.

Anyway next day I sent her a text telling her that I knew she wanted to see me that day but I was busy and I told her that I can the day after (which is today). I told her the time and place but she said that already had an appointment. Now I feel I can't do anything. If I call or text her now I come across too needy. So I'll wait if she is going to call those days. If not next week I'll try again.


Actually I didn't stated my thread question right. I'd better ask: What is the thing that will bring more trust between of us. Should I honestly tell her that I felt lame about what happened that night.

Internally I have a feeling/ intuition if you will that she thinks that I'm not interested in her. Because very often she tell me that she was calling too often and was "very cold"

Truth is because I don't like being emotional and I strive to control my emotions.

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Eddie Fews wrote:
What was your response?

And either way..

Just let her contact you; because she will. She's the one that walked out. Let her walk back in.



agree .
this situation is realllllllyyy annoying i understand you here man .
what i would do is ask here on the spot if she is ok ? and if everything is ok ?
cause its fair to ask ...i would not try to arouse her again , that kind of connives that you only want here for sex ...
so it hurts ...
you must be able to let go in these spots in order to get back ...
be cool tell here that its all good .



besides that she is the one the needs to come back with an explanation .
give her some time and she will get in touch with you .
keep me posted regarding developments
and please please go meet other girls asap :) it will be easier to wait


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Rico_luts wrote:
Eddie Fews wrote:
What was your response?

And either way..

Just let her contact you; because she will. She's the one that walked out. Let her walk back in.



agree .
this situation is realllllllyyy annoying i understand you here man .
what i would do is ask here on the spot if she is ok ? and if everything is ok ?
cause its fair to ask ...i would not try to arouse her again , that kind of connives that you only want here for sex ...
so it hurts ...
you must be able to let go in these spots in order to get back ...
be cool tell here that its all good .



besides that she is the one the needs to come back with an explanation .
give her some time and she will get in touch with you .
keep me posted regarding developments
and please please go meet other girls asap :) it will be easier to wait


developement status. - its over for 2 years already. About a month after that she LJBF-ed me, because "she doesn't think its good idea to mess our friendship with romance" - total bull. I was fool then I took it as face value, rather telling that I dont accept that deal, as I would do if I could repeat the situation.
Since then we haven't seen, nor talked to each other.

On the flip side I met and dated other women and have actually forgot bout her. However - now is another issue that I'm facing.

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PostPosted: Sun Jul 17, 2016 5:58 pm 
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omg what is all this... dude...

Listen , your not gonna like what i say but she either likes you or not. If you ARE an attractive man she'll call back , if not, you know she pulled a runner on you...

stop all this mental masterbation...


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