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DeToX
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 Posted: Sat Jul 05, 2008 1:20 pm Post subject: Jealousy... |
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Hi There..
Ok i have this little problem.. i am gaming this really nice HB9 and i have plenty of other girls by the side.. with the other girls i dont get jealous but with her when she talks about others guys or i see her messaging on facebook or something i get jealous and im starting to loose control of my game.. i make weird jokes or say stupid stuff..
Or im try to make her jealous but that doesnt work.. i just wanna stay positive and dont give a fuck but i think i like this one to much to REALLY dont give a fuck... ever happend to you guys? she hates guys who claim her and get all jealous
Point is i need to do some damage control what do you guys think??
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Nightfox
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It might be some kind of shit-test. Since you've got so many girls around you, maybe she feels that she has to have lot's of guys around her. By shit-testing you, she'll see if she still has the control over you or not.
If possible, think of it as a test, and with that in mind, continue as usual. Don't think of the other guys as competition, but just as a test.
Also, by actually trying to make her jealous, you fail the test by you trying to hard. Don't give a shit, but either punish her or ignore her when she talks about other guys. |
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Reo
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| Posted: Sat Jul 05, 2008 5:25 pm Post subject: |
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| Sounds like you're not the pimp u thought u were.....letting that girl get into your head like that that.... sounds like u got the itis |
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Ezoghoul
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| Posted: Sat Jul 05, 2008 10:16 pm Post subject: |
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Well, you sound like you are obsessed with her.
Sometimes a great girl comes along and you basically have 3 choises:
1. Sarge other girls and leave her behind
2. Keep her and sarge other girls anyway
3. Go exclusive with her (that means retiring from the game Style-style)
Is she worth it? |
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DeToX
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| Posted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 12:38 pm Post subject: |
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Well..!!
I dont really know if she is worth it.. the weird thing is im not really in love or anything because when you are in love you know you are..
But i never have this problem only once before i start doing pua.. so its a hard choice ill just go and keep on sarging others girls but just keep her and dont give as much attention to her anymore.. i sometimes went afc on her and that is a really really bad thing.. thanks for the respond btw! 
@REO: Dude that doesnt help me at all i know its not good so just respond with some advice or go to another topic or something..  |
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Ezoghoul
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Youre welcome man!
I think you have made the right choice. It is the one I would have done myself. Actually I just did. I have MLTR who start going a bit weird, I just sarge others and get IOIs from them in front of her (tread carefully here).
This increases your value and she will become a bit jealous. BTW girls do this all the time. |
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divider
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| Posted: Mon Jul 14, 2008 12:29 pm Post subject: |
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| I got the same problem... I know I'm not in love with my girl but I somehow want to "posess" her... we both agreed that we don't really want to have a realationship thus I actually don't have the "right" to be jealous but still I am... additionaly she likes to hang out with some of my closest friends which makes the situation much more complicated... should I go on with the game as usual?? I really hope for some more advices!!! |
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Georgiy
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| Posted: Tue Jul 15, 2008 5:47 am Post subject: |
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well man, all you can do here is to accept the fact that she is a popular girl, which she probably is, since she is pretty, and TRULY accept it.
You know, she'll message all she wants - but there is only a VERY small percentage of guys out there who can really get her to have sex with them. All the others, which is about 99% - are just entertainers. And unless a guy is really good, you will understand what's going on before she does it. Unless you're blind 
Number 1 thing you need now - now, just observe how unnaturally you act around her and don't blame yourself, but just watch. If you can just watch your behavior - you can stop all your stupid jokes and take the situation under control. This is exactly what you need - control over your situation. There are many ways to control it, very effective ways, but for now if you can't control yourself first - you won't be able to control her. This is not a type of control through your will, but an unconditional one. So try that and don't trip, b/c most guys are jokes. Talk to your girl, make her feel like a woman.  |
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DeToX
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It was a good choice.. just keep on gaming..!! Really.. because also if you stay doing that it will get easier i dont know why but it is.. Especially when you meet hot girls and you have sex with them or even know you CAN have sex witth them its a big ego boost.. but ofcourse make sure she dont find out otherwise she can go into devence mode and also fuck other guys and you dont want that.. just keep her happy but also make here curious for more..
Again thanks for the responses! |
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syndrome69
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Great post Georgiy, I dated a really hot girl with so many friends and so many guys trying it on with her... she flirted like mad and teased about going down to meet them but never did - it drove me crazy jealous though, every time i saw her on facebook i always thought she was doin it....
Ur right - about 99% of the time the guy pursuing her will only be able to imagine her naked, whereas you got her naked every night  |
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