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DMN New to PUA Forum
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Posted: Fri Dec 07, 2007 11:50 am Post subject: In bar |
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Just came from a bar, I was there with three friends
So there was a HB7 (or so) on the other side and she loked to us few times, but I wasn't sure to who of us
I remembered when a friend (natural PUA) told me he told waitress to go there, ask her if she is single and if she can write down her phone number, and he said she did that and succeded with that one.
So I thought of that but my friends were like: Are you crazy, you cant do that and so I didn't
So what do you guys think about that? What are chances of success?
BTW: I still have AA  |
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El Grande PUA Forum Enthusiast
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Posted: Fri Dec 07, 2007 12:54 pm Post subject: |
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It sounds like a bad idea.Walking up would be best,thats what I would do and you could probly get more then a number close, but my AA goes away after a few beers. .Good luck |
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DMN New to PUA Forum
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Posted: Fri Dec 07, 2007 1:06 pm Post subject: |
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Yea, I was driving We were going just home from college
it was just for half an hour
And I know it is not the best idea drinking |
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El Grande PUA Forum Enthusiast
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Posted: Fri Dec 07, 2007 1:24 pm Post subject: |
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Yes I too suffer from the same problem of not being able to just walk up to a woman at any given time and working my magic.I also have another problem being in Germany that I am American and dont speak German very well.I will see a HB while in a store but can't work up the confidence to go and try to get her name at minimum.It sucks and I will get past this but it will be a tough job.
DMN I see you are from Slovenia,I have some family in Trieste,Italy I have been to some of the boarder towns in Slovenia.Tons of dimepeices there. |
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DMN New to PUA Forum
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Posted: Fri Dec 07, 2007 2:03 pm Post subject: |
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So what do you other guys think?
How about in club (female friend told me):
when an eye contact happens,
to just go there and ask for a phone number
Is it possible ? |
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that_guy PUA Forum Enthusiast
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Posted: Fri Dec 07, 2007 11:02 pm Post subject: |
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| it too direct to just ask for the phone number, if she looks at u its a sign that u should go over and make her comfortable enough to give u her number, remember that she is someone u have never met b4 |
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DMN New to PUA Forum
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Posted: Sat Dec 08, 2007 11:23 am Post subject: |
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| Ur probably right |
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The Doctor Moderator Dedicated Member
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Posted: Sat Dec 08, 2007 11:59 am Post subject: |
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Eye contact is an AI (Approach Invitation)... go talk to her
If you just go up and ask for a number you'll probably have a very very low success%... even if she is very attracted to you physically, let alone if its only margianally.
As for AA... open some warm up sets, some HB6's... some guys... hell go open some UG's first... do a couple of those were you open, hook, talk for a little bit then eject without even the thought of closing. That can help you get in the zone, so you feel better before approaching a set with a target.
Also... everyone expierences AA to some point... Micheal Jordan has admitted to being nervious everytime he got the ball to take a last second shot. But to improve you push past it, you'll never close a girl you don't even talk to. |
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DMN New to PUA Forum
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Posted: Sat Dec 08, 2007 5:16 pm Post subject: |
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| thanx |
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