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FeelTheBurn
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 Posted: Wed Dec 12, 2007 6:39 pm Post subject: Importent 2 have a plan |
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Hey guys, I'w have been thinking bout how 2 up my pu skills the most, in the giveing conditions and then it came 2 me: Why not ask my fellow pua 4 any sugestions, and thus, here I am, telling u what i think u need 2 know, 2 help me plan this out:
Well, Im 18, i go to highschool, and now am soon 2 go 2 collage, financally stable, play the guitar, dont rly go out that much 2 clubs, but I'm out with my friend on weekends 2 a more then few goth clubs, or alternative music bars. I know alot routiness, but am prob not all that congruent with them. My question for u is: How should i procced? What do u think is the best move for me 2 make, to get some good PU skills?
Damit this comunite has given so much 2 me, I promiss Im gona start giveing back, as soon as my skills improve and I get some Storys 2 tell, and advice 2 give =/ |
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skittlepimp
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ok first off stop talking with the "2" instead of " to" only prince can get away with that. 
seriously speaking
there is no easy way to get started other than just to jump in, talk to everyone, watch how people interact with each other, try and see if you can tell how comfortable they are with each other for instance.
when talking to someone try and get them to talk about themselves, people love to hear about themselves.
its always good to have a strategy thought out, try and think of the possible responses and how you will follow up. but also try to be prepared for when things dont go as planned
study the Mystery Method, i highly recommend it. |
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FeelTheBurn
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| Posted: Wed Dec 12, 2007 7:04 pm Post subject: |
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| Ye u'r right, I agree bout the "observe the people" part, but for the get people 2 tell u about them self's thing, do u have any specific routine or line 2 get them opening up, or is that again just calibration ? |
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skittlepimp
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| Posted: Wed Dec 12, 2007 8:14 pm Post subject: |
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just ask them questions that lead them to talking about themselves like
you: just curious could you tell me what it is about "soccer" that you like
hb: well its cool becuase blah blah blah
you: well whats your favorite
hb: blah blah blah
if she says any thing like why are you talking to me, just say you seemed like someone inteligent
try and mirror whatever interests or qualities they have once you find them out. |
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FeelTheBurn
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| Posted: Wed Dec 12, 2007 8:21 pm Post subject: |
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Oh, ok cool, will try so..
Feel free 2 share more with me if u think of something :p |
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skittlepimp
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| Posted: Wed Dec 12, 2007 8:59 pm Post subject: |
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| sure, and anything i can help with let me know as well |
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